15 and in love with a 21 year old what to do when he wanna wait but be with someone else while he waits?

Question

i am 15 and love a 21 year old and he loves me but want to be with me intell am 18 so hes ganna try and be with a nother gurl but dont want me to be with anouther guy am i dumb for waiting

Answer 1

Yes, get out of it now. If he thinks its okay to be with someone else but not you then I said to hell with him. You're only 15, right now you are just figuring out who you are, maybe not even yet. Try dating around, perferably with people your own age or around it but whatever. Just date people that are good to you. Ditch this douchebag though

Answer 2

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Answer 3

First of all, I do hope that you will wait. You are too young and way too precious to be having sex now. Also, not only are there STD's out there, and HIV, there is also HPV. I was sexually active when I was your age. In 2005, I was diagnosed with the HPV virus. Please, wait. Sex should only happen when you are much older and am capable of more responsibilty. If this guy is really 21, he needs to move on. He's too old and can find himself in some serious jail time for even having such conversations with you. Tell him to get lost and tell your parents what he has been discussing with you. Not only is this the right thing for you to, but it will allow your parents to see a much more responsible teen-ager. It will gain more trust, and respect.

Answer 4

first of all..your so young...love is such a complex thing one minute you think your in love the next your fighting and saying"i hate your guts!" I think your so young and love is so easy to say because everyone is saying it...but i think your in "strong like" with him because he gives you attention and makes you feel good and have a great time..
I think if he wants you to wait them HE should wait TOO!! Why should you have to put a hold on your "love" life when he's not going to!!?!
If he wants you to wait he needs to as well!!
There are so many guys in high school that are cool to be around and are going to be interested in you so either
both have an open relationship or forget about him..
besides there are so many other "fish in the sea" and you'll find them all throughout highschool..
remember he is 6 years older than you and thats a lot
...his intention and mind set is WAY different than yours...he's thinking and wanting to do stuff you haven't even thought about
I'd find a guy more on my level instead or swimming with piranhas...

Answer 5

A bit one sided don't you think? If it is meant to be it's meant it will happen for you when you're 18. But don't hold off seeing other people, you may not even like this guy when you are 18. Trust me your taste in men will change allot from 15 to 18. You may not like him then. Don't waste good years of high school waiting for him.

Answer 6

You're 15,you have your whole life to think about guys.He's not exactly waiting for you if he's going to have another girl.Look for someone your own age.I do know what you are feeling though,im 18 and my fiance is 27.I've been with him since I was 16 and we have a son together.You're just a child and he's the adult so he's doing the right thing.

Answer 7

You're 15. Three years is a long time to wait. Next week you'll be in love with someone else. He is smart for not getting involved with you only because you are under age for everything.

Answer 8

Yes, the whole situtation is dumb. Do you honestly think that he wants to wait if he is so ready to move on and date someone else? Thats silly, I mean come one, why on earth would he even suggest something like that if he were 100% into you? I think you know as well as the rest of us that his story is crap. Not to mention by the time you do turn 18 he is going to be 26! Oh my gosh, he is going to be ready to settle down ect. and you'll be just starting life. Now why on earth would you want that? I think you need to get rid of him.

Answer 9

Just leave the guy! He wants everything for him, but nothing for you. Both of you are in an age in that in 3 years MANY things are bound to change in your lives. Neither of you will be the same person in 3 years. So, no sense in waiting for a stranger.

Just date someone your age.

Answer 10

yes, it would be dumb. lots of girls fall for this. statutory rape if you guys decide to have sex and he'll be convicted and put in jail for that and that's why he said 18 for the sex. but does a good guy want sex and when he can't get it, go with someone else in the time being? no, a good guy who respects you for you would wait and be patient and not have a single thought of being with someone else regardless of the circumstance. he doesn't truely love you no matter how much he said it.