I mean I'm a nice girl, I only cuss at old people when I see them walking around, I wanna beat them with a stick, but other than that I don't say bad words. But when I have sex I say the filthiest things. Why is this? Any psychologists can explain it?
2007-04-28 09:04:57 · 25 answers · asked by succubus 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
relax angelicbeauty, I only cuss at old people
2007-04-28 09:08:26 · update #1
because it is lust and not love, love doesn't use obscentities.
2007-04-28 09:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by dad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nice girl and yet you cuss at old people? Why? Then you say you want to beat them with a stick? Why? Girl! you have a problem! And then you wonder why you say the filthiest things during sex? This all goes to show you aren't the nice girl, you say you are!
2007-04-28 16:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in a completely different mindset when you're having sex. When you're walking down the street you're 100% different then when you're in bed with your boyfriend.
Sex brings out the most animilistic tendencies within us, because we are fulfilling one of our basic needs for survival. Much in the same way that we eat fast because we are starving, we do whatever it takes to highten the mood while having sex, because it helps satisfy us.
PS: That beating the old people with a stick thing was quite possibly the funniest thing I have read today.
2007-04-28 16:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by JT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"We" do? "obscenities" yes. I scream "pay my rent." And "leave the cash on the dresser." Sometimes I scream "vacuum sometimes." It doesn't get any dirtier than that. There's nothing wrong with the screaming obscenities part of love making. Then she said... Not only when I see young people on the street do I want to pummel them with blunt objects I also have to resist the urge when I'm indoors to put them in an oven and turn it on or smash their faces into walls repeatedly. Is that the ying and yang of life? I guess so.
2007-04-28 17:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Luch d 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You SAY you are a nice girl---but NICE GIRLS don't cuss at old people just because they are OLD....and wanting to beat them up? Well, I'm sorry but you are OBVIOUSLY way to immature to even be TAKING about sex let alone participating in it.....if you WERE mature enough for sex, you would not be having those CHILDISH thoughts about older people----just remember my dear that some day, you will BE one of those old people.. If I were you I'd wait about 10 more YEARS before having sex----because you make yourself sound like a 10 year old.
2007-04-28 18:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
We are so used to cussing now adays, that we can try to contain it, but it is just like saying good day anymore. So, even though you try to be respectful with certain people, which is good, when you are having sex, you just 'turn loose' and don't hold nothing back...so therefore, the words just come out as a strong emotional expression...It really is kinda horrible, and everyone has done it...but I really have had to break this habit, because I don't want to dishonor God or Jesus...by making something filthy out of something that was created to be beautiful...hope that helped?
2007-04-28 16:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm the same way. I'm a really nice girl and I'm often really quite, but once me and my husband have sex, I become very loud and start saying the dirtiest things! I do it partly because it gets my man so hot to hear those dirty things, and the other part is because I like it.
Sex is such an intense feeling, it makes you want to scream. So that's pro bally why we all start moaning, groaning, screaming, dirty talking, etc.
:D
2007-04-28 16:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by noneya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice girls don't cuss at the elderly--and not everyone screams obscenities when having sex!
2007-04-28 16:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't understand the old person problem. Some say people who are not smart use profanity. But in my opinion, we just don't know what else to say. Everyone reacts to that differently, there's nothing wrong with it. There's something wrong with you wanting to hit old people though.
2007-04-28 16:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just seems right to let out those cuss words at that time. I can't explain it, but it just does.
2007-04-28 16:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Todd B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that's pretty common now amongst people when they are having sex they try to say stuff like that and i think sex and aggresion go hands to hands, and some people call that kinky, but surprisingly that make the sex more intersting for mojority of people, and that's why they call it "sex talk"! and it could be offending to say things like that to same person IF you are not doing it.
2007-04-28 16:15:24 · answer #11 · answered by tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋