or is it destined that I be alone and independent and a relationship counselor forever, and never have anyone that wants to do more with me then get me in his motel room? By the way maybe that is why I don't go there when they keep asking? You think?
2007-04-28 08:45:38 · 9 answers · asked by Friend 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
""They did once & it wasn't a hotel room ...it was thier life !!!!""
How do you know this? You don't know, but I will say this I have always given the best that I have had to give and always probably even given much more then was required of me, and yes I have been particular, cautious, and at times maybe even a little selfish, but I have never used anyone or hurt anyone that has not hurt me first. I am not like that, you would have to give me evidence to prove me different on that.
2007-04-28 09:35:06 · update #1
Most of you that answered this have probably not been reading along on my questions and answers, so you can't know me not even from that. I have another question to ask now and I will.
2007-04-28 09:38:41 · update #2
""well i dont think ur doomed to be alone. but im sure i am.""
No your not, alone isn't always bad either sometimes we need it that way it is what is best for us if they believe it or not?
2007-04-28 11:09:28 · update #3
well i dont think ur doomed to be alone. but im sure i am.
2007-04-28 10:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I hope you are not waiting for someone to literally say that because it just won't happen. But, I am sure you will hear just as great things when you are in a relationship. You will find someone with time. Cliche, I know, but true. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 21. And many people don't meet "The One" until much later in life. I am sure you will meet a mature, honest person when you least expect it.
And another thing you might want to consider: Do you think that your standards are too high? Just a question.. because I know some women set way too high standards and might miss out on some great guys because of it. You might also be jaded about love and romace, because you see all the NOT so good sides of them at your job. Leave your work at work. And enjoy yourself and being single! You will meet someone.
2007-04-28 15:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop waiting for Mr. Right to come sweep you off your feet and concentrate on just making yourself happy and achieving your goals. He is sure to come when the time is right. There is nothing a man loves more than independence, confidence and the impression that a woman is not really SEEKING a partner!
2007-04-28 15:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is hard, by all means I understand that. But it's just like winning a championship and things like that. We have to work and go through a lot of bad things to get to the good. But in the end we will have worked hard and received the greatest prize of all; LOVE!
So my words to you are to never give up on finding love. For even if you find it later in life it wil still be grand. Good luck.
2007-04-28 16:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one really talks like that. At least at first.
In the beginning, its all about first impressions and hitting it off.
What do you mean they keep asking? That you go to a motel? If you don't like one night stands then don't even worry about those kind of guys. Just don't go through the rest of your life limiting yourself to only one kind of guy.
2007-04-28 15:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by hsawaknow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They did once & it wasn't a hotel room ...it was thier life !!!!
2007-04-28 15:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kitten your Prince will appear just have faith/confidence in you and your morals
2007-04-28 15:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more.
2007-04-28 15:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
they wont say that, but there is someone for everyone
2007-04-28 15:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋