my hubby up and left 7 months ago and he hasnt called or wrote nothing about 2 weeks ago wanting his taxs papers is all.and he thinks he's God's gift to women and is sex crazed do you think he is having a affair we havent had any together in 11 months.i think i know what the answer will be but just thought i'd put it out there.and also for some reason the last time we did have sex i had in the back of mind the whole time it was going to be our last time
2007-04-28 06:19:37 · 19 answers · asked by rebecca l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes - He is probably remarried by now. Got that whole two family thing going on. File the divorce already.
2007-04-28 06:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only your hubby knows what your hubby is really up too. Based on what you said
1) He hasn't called or written you in 7 months
2) He contacted you for tax papers two weeks ago
3) He hasn't had sex in 11 months (that you know of)
4) He's left
5) And he is sex crazed
I'd say that the likelihood is high that he's been up to no good. Mainly by the sheer fact of how he is treating you as his wife. Living as if he is a single man it seems.
2007-04-28 06:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should file for a divorce and find someone that wants to be with you! There are so many men out there that will fall at your feet and hand over a eye tooth to have a chance at a good woman. Sounds like your man is up to no good and time to replace him... My ex thought he was God's gift to women and he did cheat over and over again...
2007-04-28 06:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...why did he leave for seven months?? Military? Assuming he just left out of the blue for seven months without anything, cheating or no cheating that's just not acceptable and frustrating. Not contacting your spouse is neglectful to the union. You really should file for divorce. That's just beyond f-ed up. Regarding your last sentence to your question, I think you know more than anything else how this is going to pan out. Run to your lawyer girlfriend.
2007-04-28 06:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say divorce is the answer on the grounds of desertion. If a man disappears for seven months without explanation, it would seem he has no intention of coming back. He has abandoned his marriage. If you had no warning of his intentions, then he is a coward or else too inconsiderate to sit down discuss things with you
2007-04-28 06:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.....and you know it. He left you so it's obvious he doesn't care or value you. I would file for divorce a.s.a.p. The only reason he contaced you was for tax stuff...... who knows how long would have gone by if you didn't have something he needed.
I'm sorry he is such a tool but you need to stop living in denial and move on.
2007-04-28 06:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will see the two factors of this one, gazing the holiday. He could desire to be which contain you in together with his time. you're a newly married couple, and additionally you may desire to spend time away with one yet another. If it is something like a fishing holiday or different time-honored "guy" issues, then supply him time together with his acquaintances. attempt making plans some away time including your girlfriends. Time aside is fairly much as considerable as time mutually. he's actual incorrect nevertheless in breaking his word to you. If he asked, and additionally you mentioned definite, then it won't probable be breaking his word, it is basically adjusting the placement. You did no longer agree, so he's incorrect in going against your desires in this. Marriages is all approximately supply and take. learn how to enable him have his time, and learn that it is not incorrect for you to have some time. you may desire to be the place you want to be with one yet another, no longer could desire to be.
2016-10-14 00:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by hagensee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is fooling around with someone, maybe several someones. You need to write him off and move on with your life. Forget about that loser, get a divorce and move on.
2007-04-28 06:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by BadBudha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not fooling around. He's found someone new, and is having a committed highly sexed relationship with her.
2007-04-28 06:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by MoreFoolishThanWise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has left you, either for another woman or not. What does it matter? It's time for a divorce.
2007-04-28 06:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋