Am I too young to have a serious boyfriend?

Question

I am 13,and he just turned 14.
I think I love him
weve been together for almost 3 months(on wednesday)
he says he loves me a lott too
but he could just be saying it
Im not sure,
what do you think?


HIM (10:25:26 PM): i dont think my mom would lie to you seein how im like in love with you i think id not talk to her
HIM (11:45:19 PM): well good nite baby i love you sweet dreams

Answer 1

AWW thats really sweet!!

but your never too young to have a serious relationship. it just that you might be in lust just not in love with him. guys will say things like that because they want you to feel good inside. other guys say things like that to make you feel good so they can get inside(if you know what i mean). if you don't know if he is telling the truth about i love you then you don't know him that well. if you knew your boyfriend very well then you would know if he is telling the truth or not.

Answer 2

3 Months is way too short. Trust me. See if you can go over the summer, and 6-7 months. And remember just because you hit a few bumps doesn't mean it can't work out, but if you constantly hit bumps and aren't sure it's probably not worth it.

But no your not too young, the relationship is just not long enough to be serious.

Answer 3

I think you are to young to know what love is. It is probably just hormones at this point. There is nothing wrong with a bf or gf at your age but dont believe it is going to be true love. You are young and have a lot to learn about relationships.

Answer 4

Yes.Neither of you have a place of your own, a job, a car or pay all your own bills.You parents support you and most the time think what youre doing is cute until someone ends up pregnant.Concentrate on saving yourself for marriage and getting an education so you can support yourself financially.

Answer 5

Ah, incredibly young infatuation...I remember the days...

You are both way to young to comprehend love.

At this point in life love to a 13 year old girl usually means: emotions, giggly, faithful, "he smiled at me", hold my hand, "he called me baby" kind of stuff...

At this point in life love to a 14 year old guy usually means:
"she's cute" "my sex-crazed hormones are raging" "say something she'd like to hear" "hormones still raging" "tell her you love her" "yeah, they are still raging" "do or say anything and swear I FEEL the love" "go out of my mind because my hormones are raging..."

What do I think? I think you are too young and proof of that will be that you will think I'm too old and don't understand.

Answer 6

hmmm ok,, ur not too young,, you are experiancing your first contact with the other sex,, its fine really but keep your mind open ok, dont follow tv or whats going on with other persons life,,,, take it easy and keep like a friendly thing.,,, what you want now might not be the same with what you want when you are 21 years old.... and for gods sake dont get pregnant,, dont even have sex ok,,,, dont rush all this things,, enjoy your teens years,,, all of this things will come to you when the time is right,,, when will you know the time ?? well u will know beleive me,,, so i hope u take care,, and sorry to be blunt to you

Answer 7

Here's some advice that you won't like and don't want to hear (none of us did)! At 13, you are just beginning to start a "relationship" stage in life that will have many ups and downs. Un-fortunately, most "ups" end in "downs"! This will happen many, many times in your life, so try to be prepared. Many "Hellos" end in "Goodbyes". Enjoy the ups while you can, you've got many more "Hellos" and "Goodbyes" to go!

Answer 8

People do use those words alot. If a guy said that to me at that age, I wouldn't seriously believe it.
I think you're too young. Is this your first boyfriend? I think you have to be with more guys before you know for sure who is the one.

Answer 9

Wait until your in your 30's for a serious boyfriend. Your life before this time should be "play time". Why waste the first half of your life on one person when you got a whole second half of your life waiting, maybe even overtime.

Answer 10

ure never to young to try something new...like a serious relationship or so..but you have to remember that there's a risk in everything you do. u guys might end up well..but even if it dont end up like what uve planned, at least u'll then learn that things dont always go your way.. by then you'll find yourself matured enough to decide without others opinion.