Why do they just like the "easy" girls? I think it is SO pathetic!
2007-04-28 05:43:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Kathy G: I am from England.
2007-04-28 05:56:42 · update #1
Stupid guys like easy girls for that exact reason. They're too lazy to be decent human beings and show respect for their female counterparts. REAL men show respect for women every day, in every situation, wherever they are. But as women believe less and less that there are respectful men, the fewer and fewer of us there are.
2007-04-28 05:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Heaven forbid a woman have desires the same as a man. How dare she want pleasure. How dare she listen to her body and her needs. So, if she likes a guy enough to want to sleep with him and he with her, but the relationship doesn't work out and they break up. Then she tries this again with another man, and a few months later that doesn't work out, then she dates another man for a few years, by now, she's a little jaded by men. She decides she doesn't want a relationship to define her. She still has physical needs still, so she has healthy "friendships" with men that are sexual. She goes about her life concentrating on her career and friends. Having fun and meeting new people. Finally she meets a great guy, they really hit it off and the possibility of marriage comes up. Is she not worthy or less of a woman for having failed relationships of the past that weren't always her fault? Is because she's had "friends with benefits" relationships, she's a bad person? She's a **** because she can't control that other men didn't want to date her "in that way?" Come on people? Men are accepted to have a "friends with benefits" or failed relationships in their pasts, but a woman can not? The highest proposition for a woman is marriage. Marriage and relationships mean she's worthy or lovable? I don't understand why it's perfectly ok for a guy to have several partners in his life, but a woman is not. Please explain this to me. Why is it if she was a guy going through the same type of life, no one would blink an eye at the story, but if it's a female, then it's not ok?
2016-06-10 10:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is when they are interested and they can't get you into bed they like the chase. They know they got to ride the pony. Most women who don't sleep around are considered wife material. Cause when they meaning guys finally settle down they can't change a hoe from her natural behavior. I get mad respect for not being easy.
2007-04-28 08:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that the right person is not going to care whether or not you've slept around before. But at the same time, it's not something you absolutely need to disclose within 5 dates. In my opinion, at least give him some time to get to know you and have reasons to like you before you tell him those type of things. I'm not saying you should be secretive, just don't dig yourself into a hole before giving yourself a chance. And of course, try not to be too easy next time, guys like the thrill of the chase. If you give it up too easy, they will just get bored of you or might get the wrong idea.
2016-03-18 08:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crap. No real guy will tell you they don't respect women who don't sleep around.
They might want to date those kind of women, because they're easy, but no guy thinks that easy women are better than ones who don't sleep around.
2007-04-28 05:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i agree with you hun. some men are like that but i think its because they seem more bad or something but its just being a s.l.u.t. some guys aren't like that some men respect a women who doesn't need to have sex to feel like she's attractive etc... i hope you don't feel you have to sleep around to get respect because you'll just get a name for yourself. XX
2007-04-28 05:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's see here... What is your definition of "sleep around" and girls that are "easy"? I personally am not interested in girls that "sleep around with everyone" but sex is an important part of a relationship when two people really like each other. In fact, from experience, some of the better relationships I have been in have been based on a mutual "friends with benefits" arrangement. I respect all women (as long as they respect me too).
2007-04-28 05:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dave F 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WTH are you talking about? Men love women like that what decent man wants an easy woman. I know guys that have plenty of respect for women who arent whores. It says a lot about a womans character.
Only guys who have low esteem and lack self respect like easy women because those easy types of women dont have any self esteem or self respect either.
2007-04-28 05:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DECENT men DO respect girls who do not sleep around.Only the guys who want to use you as a disposable human sex toy do not respect you because you are denying them the pleasure of using you as a disposable human sex toy.Quit going for these kind of guys.Go to church, there's some good looking guys there, try the united pentecostal churches-theyre great!
2007-04-28 05:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly what you mean. They seem to respect the girls who spread their legs 5 minutes after meeting them, but the ones who just want to talk and get to know them are NEVER worth it.
If the guy can't realize the difference between a **** and a lady then he has some serious growing up to do.
2007-04-28 06:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋