this is a question for both women and men.do you think both,boyfriend and girlfriend should get theirself tested,before both of them start having sex?i know my girlfriend and i went to our drs. and got tested before we ever thought of having sex.we thought,that way we both knew that neither 1 of us were infected with something.do any of you think that was a good idea?
2007-04-28 05:31:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that was a brilliant idea!!!
It is good to take all kinds of tests before getting into the physical part of the relationship!
I do not know you but......I'M SO PROUD OF YOU! Well done!
:)
2007-04-28 05:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by moon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wish my boyfriend and i had did that before we had sex; because today there are so many STD out here and most people don't know that they have them. it is always better to be safe then sorry; life is a beautiful thing to have. and you just don't know how long you will be here to enjoy it. as for me and my boyfriend the only thing that we got from each other is a baby on the way and we have being together for 3yrs now. and no STD have been given to each other.and when our kids get to the age of thinking about sex i will tell them the same thing get tested because you can't always take the word of the person that you are with they may have something and not know it. love life, the people around you and yourself do the right thing.
2007-04-28 05:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by seansean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a very sensible & mature act on both of your parts . In todays society if a boyfreind and girlfriend get to a sexual point in their relationship both need the reassurance neither have any unknown STD that could infect the other partner.
2007-04-28 05:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bluekittie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea. That way you can know what you're getting into beforehand. I also think it's a good idea to get tested on a regular basis as well. You just never know what may happen. Good question.
2007-04-28 05:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a good idea but it can be an ackward situation. You dont want to offend your partner but you dont want to be infected with anything that they might not even know about. I suppose just be clear in the beginning so you both know.
2007-04-28 05:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by brideofsatan_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, i find that both couple should get themselves tested esp. if one or the two of them were involved in sexual activities before, cause most likely they could be infected, even to they might of use an protection such as condom, they should go and get themselves tested
2007-04-28 05:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Carla M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Great idea! You and you gf were smart! EVERYONE should do that these days people will lie about thier sexual history so its best to get tested for stds to protect both parties. Smart thinkig kudos to you! More ppl should do that!
2007-04-28 05:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, if both of you have been sexual active with past partners. This will give you more trust, and you wouldn't have to worry about contracting a disease. You shouldn't take this as an offense, everybody could get these kind of diseases.
2007-04-28 05:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately!
2007-04-28 05:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by lovepink317537 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. That is the smart thing to do. If more people were mature and thought the way you and your girlfriend did they would not have to deal with STDs.
2007-04-28 05:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by MARS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋