I've been messing around with a married man, but we haven't kissed...like in his mind, THAT would be cheating or something, which is dumb because from where we are, we can barely see that line we've already crossed. So, how do I get him to kiss me or should I just stay happy with where we are right now? I'm afraid if I try, he'll freak out and call the whole thing off and that's not what I want.
2007-04-28 05:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by graybear 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I'm afraid if I try, he'll freak out and call the whole thing off." Sweetheart, you need to look at this situation in the long-term. What do think will actually come out of this? Sure, it's probably exciting as hell. But allowing your heart to get caught up in the web of a, I assume, unhappily married man will only leave you in heartache.
2007-04-28 05:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing right now!!!!! How did this end for you? If you don't mind me asking .?
2014-04-26 09:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bre 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't even be messing around with this man. First off it seem like he doesn't want to do anything more than that so why are you going to push him? Second, you might not be ready for any serious relationships or you've never experienced true love, and for that reason you are messing around with him carelessly. Whenever you are ready for that and you find the man of your dreams... would you like to share your man with another woman? You should go out and find a new guy who will pay all the attention to you and not just give you leftovers from his wife. Have some respect!
2007-04-28 05:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by G~Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.Arent you just full of morals ,so much that you wont settle for a single guy but have to destroy someones marriage.Why dont you rape him at gun point and that will "make him love you" in your sick twisted little selfish self centered world? Are there any children in his marriage/If he has a lick of sense he will tell you to get lost before he does something he cant fix.Just remember girlie, if he will cheat WITH you, he will cheat ON you.You arent the only good looking girl with a hole between her legs hon who thinks this guy is hot.
2007-04-28 05:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the first place,you shouldnt be messing around with a married man,let alone kissing him.what would happen,if his wife found out,it could cause a divorce and if they have kids,they could be hurt,do you want that?
2007-04-28 05:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be messing with a married man. Would you want someone to do that to you?
2007-04-28 05:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by MARS 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stay away from a married man they're taken you fool! Think of the hurt his wife would feel if you started doing stuff like that with her man!!! I dont think you'd like it if you had a hubby and he was messin with another woman !! XX
2007-04-28 05:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stick to dating and kissing unmarried men. I know you like this guy, but doesn't it bother you a little that you are the catalyst in destroying the sanctity of someone's marriage.
2007-04-28 05:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by oh really 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER EVER cross ANY line with a married man.If he crossed a line with another women and you were married to him how would you feel?.
2007-04-28 05:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be the "other woman". Besides being outright mean and immoral.... the probability is VERY high that it won't end up good for YOU in the long run.
There are plenty of unattached guys out there who would be HAPPY to kiss you.
2007-04-28 05:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kia A 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋