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2007-04-28 05:12:25
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answer #1
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answered by brideofsatan_1 3
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Everyone else is going to tell you it is way too soon, but to tell you the truth I was thinking about marrying my husband after three weeks! Not that we actually got married that soon, but we did start talking about it and we did get married and guess what, we are extremely happy over a year into the marriage.
2007-04-29 12:05:16
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answered by Helen W. 7
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I hate to say this but yes, it is too soon. People change, you may like him now but will you feel the same a few months from now? You're still in the first phase of a relationship where lust is most prominant. Now don't get my wrong, I'm not saying that you two aren't meant for each other. You may be perfect and fate wants you together. But you won't know only three weeks in.
There are couples out there that date for five or more years before they break up. There are couples who know each other for one weekend and get married and stay together for hte rest of their lives.
Your best bet is to wait. Don't rush it, the best things in life are worth waiting for. Marriage is a sacred thing. If you wait a bit longer it won't hurt you because after you get married, you have the rest of your life to be together.
2007-04-28 14:55:26
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answered by Fini Tee 2
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Depends on how old you are. If you're 16 then I'd say yes.
I've known couples who've know each other for a brief time & are still married 50 years later. And I've known some couples who've known each other for 7 years, got married & it ended in weeks.
For one we don't seem to have the same level of commitment we once possessed. And I think these cases are extreme.
You might be just smitten with this new love. See how you feel in about 5 months. If by then you still feel this way.........
2007-04-28 12:17:12
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answered by weddrev 6
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I think that those who say that it is way too early have obviously not found "the one". I think that you just know whether it is right or not. Go with your instinct on this one. I was 17 years old when I started dating my husband, and after a week he said he knew we were meant to be together. After 6 weeks he told me about it. I had no hesitations, so during my final year of school we were wedding planning and planning my 18th birthday party (a bit interesting I know). However I can say that it is still meant to be as this year we celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and have 2 beautiful children together.
NEVER LET ANYONE ELSE TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD FEEL. TRUST YOURSELF.
2007-04-28 19:16:58
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answered by happyprecious 2
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Probably. My husband and I got engaged after dating for about 3 weeks, but we had known each other for a year or so before that. There are people who instantly know, "this is the right person for me" and that's great. You just have to make sure you're making the decision based on things other than hormones, because at this point, it could be simple attraction to the person. You're the only one who knows that. You have the rest of your life to be married to this person, so don't rush it, make sure you're making the best decision, and that you can make the committment to spend the rest of your life with this one person. Good luck!
2007-04-28 13:06:52
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answered by basketcase88 7
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Not necessarily. Three weeks after I met my fiance, he asked me if I would ever consider marrying him. I said yes. He said, well I'm not asking, I was just wondering. :) How cute. We were dating a year and five months before he actually proposed. That was due to some financial problems, and waiting for his house to be built. We are getting married Septemer 29 of this year, which will make 2 years, 2 months that we dated/were engaged. I think it's perfectly fine to consider marriage at that early stage. I just wouldn't act on it for awhile. This was how I always kind of looked at it: if this person isn't someone I would consider marrying, then what's the point of dating them?
2007-04-28 12:54:10
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answered by benjis.girl 3
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I would think so. I dated my hubby for three years before I even began thinking he was the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. But, you know you hear of a lot of people who get married on a whim and are still happy twenty years later. So if you have seriously thought about it, I guess it is okay. Is your partner thinking the same? If so, go with it. Good luck! :)
2007-05-02 11:18:44
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answered by BamaBelle810 5
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I was friends with my now husband for 4 years.
The first 2 weeks of dating we knew we'd get married. We were dating 8 months before we got engaged though. And I wouldn't have even consider any of this if I hadn't known him before. We knew everything, too much actually, about each other before we even started dating.
I dated another guy & after a month we broke up...because he weirded me out talking about how he loved me & wanted to marry me.
2007-04-28 13:42:02
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answered by layla983 5
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definately too soon, iam sure you can't take three weeks to know someone, take your time you don't want to make any mistakes not that i am saying the person is not right for you, but you need some more time to develope a friendship socially then intimately
2007-04-28 12:26:12
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answered by anesha w 2
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Of course, date at least 18 mos., then engaged 6 months to a year.
2007-04-28 14:46:51
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answered by Lydia 7
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