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Or are they just BS? my friend cast a spell to keep me and my girlfriend's love strong, now she broke up with me? I think it is BS though because every spring/summer my girlfriend gets extremely Manic and has broken up with me before from suffering Mania, two days ago she still said she loves me, but if the spell really did work and reverse itself from working right.. how the hell do I get her to fix it? becaue she doesnt know how to..

2007-04-28 02:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

You know what is worse? she made the spell up herself.. didnt even use a book

2007-04-28 02:36:12 · update #1

I really need help and I dont think Niki will agree to a purifying bath and all that..

2007-04-28 02:36:37 · update #2

I didnt ask her to do this to us!! Please I just want things back to the way they were... even if someone can cast a uncrossing spell for us it would really help please...

2007-04-28 03:04:24 · update #3

18 answers

Of course spells don't work.Only silly people believe they do.Your friend the "spellcaster",extra silly.

2007-04-28 02:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. NG 7 · 1 8

So although you didn't ask for it, your friend cast a Wiccan spell to keep your love strong? No. Perhaps she cast a spell, but I highly doubt if it was a "Wiccan Spell". Since this goes against the tenets of the Wiccan religion, I have my doubts if your friend even knows what Wicca really is.

I always write my own spells. I use the specific wording that conveys the exact meanings and connotations that I want. I choose the herbs, stones, colors, time, and all other items in the spell. But this is only after many years of study and practice. I know what to use and why I want to use it. How many years has your friend been dedicated to her path? What magical system does she use (there are many)? If she isn't serious about her path, she may be dangerous.

I agree with getting your girlfriend to a professional who can treat her illness. And I agree that a purification ritual would help---but I wouldn't have your inexperienced friend do it. Yes, spells DO work but hopefully your wanna-be witch friend hasn't figured out enough yet to be truly dangerous to herself or others. A spell's effectiveness is closely linked to the casters skill level. I hope that your issue with your girlfriend is just the natural part of trying to deal with her illness.

2007-04-30 22:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Witchy 7 · 0 0

First off love spells aren't really smart to do.

Now think about what you wrote. "I think it is BS..." Then you go on to say you gf says she still loves you. do you not see the point? Depending on how she wrote the spell is the key to "fixing" it. Oh and the reason love spells are iffy is the exact reason you are writing here.

I'm not sure why you'd let someone do a spell who doesn't know enough to fix it.

Now it sounds to me like your gf needs some help in dealing with her manic. When she gets that done you both will be happier.

2007-04-28 09:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Janet L 6 · 2 0

First off, what do you mean by "wiccan" spell ?.

Not all wiccans practice the craft !!, and a spell is a spell.

This is what i meant in an answer before.
I truelly do worry about inexperienced people thinking anyone can excercise spells and craftwork when they know nothing or little about it.

This is not only dangerous to them but others too.
I don't care what anyone thinks about the 'craft', because i know for a fact that not one of my spells have failed so far.

But there are laws that need to be adhered to, simple as that.

I work constantly to better myself in my beliefs and work that i do. By no means am i saying i know it all, no one ever will.
But i am competent,and abide by the laws.

This really makes me angry, and someone fooling about with 'spells' when they haven't a clue, then they don't work just casts doubt on genuine hard working witches.

2007-04-28 09:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

i read that its bad to cast a spell for someone else because ur emotions make up most of the apparent spell. so if she wasn't part of that relationship it wouldn't have worked well coz its not u. but its also said that spells and magick work in threes so if she sent out that love spell or watever u want to call it she is gonna get it three times as much brought upon herself. so no wonder ur girlfriend broke up with u. but u no the world is based on belief and u should just believe what u think is right for urself. so dont go wasting time on this so could bs if u dont believe it ..... go and try and fix the issue with ur girl. she probably just wants attention from u. make a special date entitled to everything to her and see if it works. see if it gets her bak. it might.. it might not.

2007-04-30 09:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Wiccan spells do work but love spells are dangerous especially when putting one on a person with a mental illness.
A self written spell is only as good as the person whom wrote it.
You are aware that asking someone to cast a spell for personal gain has the same backlash as casting it yourself!? It will come back on you 7 fold....perhaps the beginning of your retribution came in the form of a reversal.

2007-04-28 10:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0 1

Indeed Wiccan spells work. However, as Wiccans, we do not cast spells to impose our will or the will of a second party, over anyone else, because it violates the Wiccan Rede: "An Ye Harm None, Do What Ye Will". Imposing our will (in this case your will) over your girl's will, could have certainly caused harm, not only to her, but to you and the witch as well.

The love spell was supposed to keep you strong, as long as you both wanted it to be together. The Rede my friend is like a thin line drawn on the ground, that no Wiccan ever crosses.

2007-04-28 09:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by David G 6 · 3 1

Spells Do work. But as i tell people it may never be the result you want. Meaning it may not turn out exactly as they want it to. Wiccan magik is not something to be played with and is not to be taken lightly. People with out the expierience can mess it up badly. I dont believe in love spells.

I was raised wiccian and i do spell cast but not offen and only to help other people. A proper wiccan will tell you that love spells are pointless and maybe refuse to do one.

Tell you mate to do an uncrossing spell and then never get her to spell cast for you again.

Wrote the spell herself.....sigh.

2007-04-28 09:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bikerbabe 2 · 2 1

I know that spells work.. the problem is inherent in what you've said here. Most wiccans I know would never do love spells as that is manipulation of another person and it's a no-no. You should work on the problems in your relationship instead of relying on magic as the sole means by which to do something.. that's personal responsibility and it's extremely important to the Wicca.

2007-04-28 09:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kallan 7 · 2 0

oh, bloody hell. your friend tampered with your girlfriend's free will, which is dangerous. find the spell she cast, and reverse it. stick your girlfriend into a purifying bath for a couple of hours. do a banishing spell, a purification ritual, a cleansing spell...
oh, and next time, make sure your friend knows what she's doing, or better yet, refuse her help. she should have cast a spell to HELP YOU THROUGH your problems, not just sweep it all under the magic carpet. magick can be dangerous if you don't know what you're doing and not seeing the bigger picture.
blessed be.


SHE WROTE THE SPELL HERSELF??? go to a good Wicca shop, buy a book, ask the store clerk for detail, and do a spell to banish and spells cast upon you and your g/f yourself. i would normally discourage casting spells without basic knowledge, but its either that or hope everything will turn out fine, and i can almost guarantee that it won't.

2007-04-28 09:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3 2

Spells exist to provide a sense of comfort to the people involved in the spell, be it the one casting it or the one it's being cast upon or whatever. They only "work" if you believe in it. Any skepticism at all, and you will experience a self-fulfilling prophecy... it doesn't work because you believe that it won't. Think of spells more along the lines of what a prayer would be in a Christian based faith. As far as your girlfriend trouble go, if she is truly manic, then you should encourage her to seek professional help because she has a treatable psychological disorder.

2007-04-28 09:32:51 · answer #11 · answered by simply_sarah_1981 2 · 3 1

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