My guy friend and I had a tryst last night which ended up 3 hours of great sex, lots of naked cuddling during, between, and after sex, and a nice kiss on the lips before he left for the night. He spent a lot of time telling me my hair and skin were "so soft " and looking into my eyes while we were being intimate. We cuddled on the sofa watching a movie afterwards and he put his arm around me and played with my hair. Could this mean he's got feelings for me ( which I wouldn't mind at al), or is this just part of the way guys are after/ during sex that is supposedly emotion-free? About a week before we actually slept together, this guy told me that he didn't have feelings for me, but I'm not so sure anymore after the way he acted last night. He ended up staying for almost 6 hours and we just hung out afterwards with lots of cuddling and joking back and forth..Can you guys give me your honest opinions?
2007-04-28 02:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by embryonicreject 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok maybe i should add that we've gone out before-- not on 'dates' per se but we've had dinner and have hung out in general way before we had sex. It's not like don't know each other..we talk literally every single day, sometimes for hours.. which makes this even more confusing.
2007-04-28 02:31:28 · update #1
He's guaranteeing a successful booty call next time.
How the hell could he have feelings for her? He doesn't even know her! If he's feeling anything, it's for a fantasy.
2007-04-28 02:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately wants to keep having sex with you in the future, thats for sure. Any guy would want that and want to keep that kind of relationship. You know he wants sex and he wants it too, so he is giving you what you need as a female: emotional support, as a way to give back to you. As to whether he wants a relationship with you will come when he has to make a decision about you... if there is another girl he wants or if the kind of relationship you guys are having gets rocky. If he decides later that there is something better, which he thinks there is by saying that he didnt have feelings for you, then his way out is to retell you that he never had feelings for you. .. Ive had sex with a girl and was emotional just cus I wanted more sex with her.
2007-04-28 02:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that after such a night, there is a very strong sense that he does have feelings for you. It's not like he enjoyed the sex then just sat next to you watching the movie as if you weren't there. So i think that he is very interested in you. But the best thing to do is to ask him what the night meant to him. That way you are not left wondering. So go ahead and talk to him about it. Good Luck not that you'll need it.
2007-04-28 02:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I can say that if I was to act the way that guy did.. It would mean that I had feelings for you.
I know that there are many guys out there that are just "in it for the sex" and things like that.. BUT I think that in those cases.. It's a lot of 'wham bam, thank you ma'am' type of thing.. (Not to sound rude.. but a lot of men are like that).. I think when I guy spends such time with a girl.. and cuddles.. stares into her eyes intimately, etc etc.. It has got to mean SOMETHING..
I guess, all in all, it really depends on what type of guy this is.. But I think that any guy would find it hard to appear to truly seem intimate and loving.. if all he was there for was the sex. I think women and their intuition can generally see those other types.. because they don't make the women feel as "special" .. just more 'sexual', etc..
Just my thoughts though.. I don't know of course what he is thinking inside.. heh.
2007-04-28 02:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and what I can tell you is guys are animal!! So get to know him more and you will find out wether he is really into you or he just couldn't find another girl to have sex with at the mean time.
So get to know him and his friends if he has a lot of girl friends then he is not into you because he got too many girls in hand!!
2007-04-28 02:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by J L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wory all guyz are like this,in fact after a guy is done with a girl, he gets exosted and all his body needs is relax. and he also declines in his intrest in girls sometime cos of harmonal disbalance,it happen with al the guyz, even i dont sometime feel like even touching or watching my girl naked,u can see my ask question and will find your ansher there. be cool,he loves you,dont wory its natural.
2007-04-28 02:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has feelings for you --- the big question is now will he come back --- not only for the sex but to know you better (it can make the sex better as well) --- best wishes and enjoy
2007-04-28 02:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could probably lure him into a relationship at this point.
just do the simple setup.
if relationship = false
then sex = false
if relationship = true
then sex = true
2007-04-28 02:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there was no relationship before you both did the horizontal bop, then why would there be a relationship afterward.
2007-04-28 02:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lord of Chaos 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he is "disguising" his feelings, he is doing a terrific job.
Most guys shoot and leave, so there might be something genuine there
2007-04-28 02:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋