2007-04-28 01:44:39 · 9 answers · asked by stranger 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
What I find works best for my boys (I have 3), is to reward when they're being good and only use time out or taking aways toys/priveledges when really necessary. I really find behaviors change when I'm praising the brother that is doing what is expected - the one misbehaving changes almost immediately.
It's so important to be consistent and follow through every time. If you say you'll give them something for behaving, give it to them right away. If you say you'll take something away, do it. I really think that's the key to getting kids to behave. Best of luck!
2007-04-28 03:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by bibliobethica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take toys off of him. My son never listens to pick up toys and such so we started ignoring him till the jobs done. He got the point within a few weeks and now when he's asked to do something 9 times outta 10 he does them. Our ped told us tot ake toys off of him, or to make a good boy/bad boy sticker chart. My son could care less about the sticker chart but who knows. You make 2 charts with days of the week and chores and an end of day. We'd put a check mark when he did stuff good and if he got checks for most of them and was a good boy all day he got a sticker and after so many stickers we'd go to walmart and buy something. 5 stickers was a hotwheels car (they're like $1) Or he could save them for something bigger. If he was bad he didnt get a check mart and no sticker. In the end he didnt care. Good luck!!
2007-04-28 08:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old he is. If he's 4 or over you could try a rewards chart, divide a page in two one side is for for good behaviour and one is for naughty behaviour. When his behaviour is good he receives a star in the good colomn when he is naughty in the naughty column. When his good column is 3 greater than his naughty column he receives a special treat.
2007-04-28 09:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take away their favorite toy for bad behavior or take away an activity from them, make them stay in the house on a nice day.
2007-04-28 08:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by morrismom0204 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 removal of privileges
2 give the child work to do
3 no tv
4 no computer
5 no video games
6 no going to friends houses
7 park the bike
But what works the best is individualized - what ever your child loves to do the most will be your best bet.
2007-04-28 09:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can just talk to your son, you don't have to send him to the naughty corner, talk to him and let him know what he did was wrong and you aren't happy. Be stern and it will work!
2007-04-28 08:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take away television, videogames, telephone, etc., depending on what will make the biggest impression. Let him earn those luxuries back with good behavior.
2007-04-28 08:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take away play time no favorite cartoon show no snack
2007-04-28 08:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by sharen w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bathroom toilet
2007-04-28 08:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by The Ninja 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋