It is said that none of the 45 jeans should match?
I am jain, i love one girl from our caste ,her mothers family surname and my mothers family surname is same?
now i was was not knowng her untill i met her , she is not related to me , yet everyone is sayng it will be like brother sister marriage! also people talk about genetic problems due to blood relation . we dont dnt know in which generation we were related ! so how can we be relatives? please help me out
2007-04-27 23:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by joey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You are a Jain, it means your are basically Hindu by religion. In order to marry any girl you should not be within the degree of prohibition relationship or Sapinda to each other as provided under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. Having common surname does not mean that you are contravening any of these conditions. The conditions regarding degree of prohibited relationship is based on the blood relationship between the two parties to the marriage to prevent genetically problems in future generations, so until & unless you two are covered under the various relationships named under the degree of prohibition you two are safe legally as well genetically to marry. Write to me directly for more information’s on this account. vijay_mahajan5758@yahoo.co.in.
2007-04-28 01:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The name can go back for generations, and if not, hey, look at Jerry Lee Lewis...He married his distant cousin. The only ones that actually had a problem with it were the rock and roll critics that hated his music, the deeply religious who are the worst of all critics, and the United Kingdom when they heard of his marriage only after he was invited to perform there
And if you're not a T.V. personality or a celebrity of the sort, I wouldn't put too much emphasis on it
2007-04-28 07:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surnames don't have to mean you're related to someone, look how many people have the last name Smith, i bet tons of of couples with the same last name have gotten married and not related.
If you want to find out if you are related to her, you can always get DNA blood tests but by the sounds of it you shouldn't listen to what others say.
2007-04-28 07:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think no...
if you REALLY-REALLY love her..
then go ahead...
why bother about other people comments and gossips?
2007-04-28 07:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by syasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋