is it unreasonable to be cross with him?
He rang my mobile at 4.50 am twice (i did not answer it)
I'm not too happy with him, he didn't say he would be out all night.
He came back stinking of drink.
He thinks he has done nothing wrong.
I live with him and he is complacent. What should I do?
2007-04-27 23:49:03 · 40 answers · asked by uk.housewife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as his bits didn't smell of fish
2007-04-27 23:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
He rang your mobile to get a ride home from the skank's trailer he was at (no offense to trailer tenants). This is VERY simple to resolve...and all WOMEN SHOULD READ THIS!
It may sound unseemly, and I will put this as delicately as possible...his undergarments should smell like one of two things right now: 1) Your undergarments; 2) A strong-scented soap which does not smell familiar, usually floral body wash type.
This is not rocket science. Sorry guys, but washing your privates on the edge of the sink with an unfamiliar soap should NEVER be enough to get you off the hook.
Kes
2007-04-28 00:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another man who is mature. I assume you have been with him for less than 2 years. He is selfish and irresponsible but then he did ring you. Did it cross your mind he could have been hurt and in an accident and he or someone else was trying to call you frim the hospital / police station / morgue? I think both of you ought to grow up and have a 9 am sober coffee time and ask each other what you want from life.
2007-04-28 00:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An ex boyfriend did the same to me once, I found out a year later he'd slept with a friend of mine, and he acted just the same when he came in. I'm not saying he's cheated on you, but it sounds like he's using a reverse psychology on you to divert you from the fact that he's got something to feel guilty about.
It's absolutely not on at all and I would have a serious think about your relationship, he's showing you no respect behaving like this.
2007-04-27 23:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by sab01_1999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest he didn't really do anything wrong, he went out with his friends and obviously had a good time. What is the harm in that??
He phoned your mobile and you didn't answer, he was probably phoning to say he would be out late or to say sorry for not phoning earlier. I know he didn't say he would be out all night but your not his Mother so why does he need to ask your permission before he goes out with his friends.
Treat him the way you would want him to treat you.
xxx
2007-04-28 02:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he was stinking of drink , means that he was probably doing nothing else.
The fact that he rang you at 4.50 meant he was ready to be back with you at 4.50 , and not 6am.......
Suggest that it's ok for him to stay out that late.......as long as he doesn't mind if you do !
That threat always worked against me ! haha !
If you suspect he is cheating on you....check his underwear.....smell his clothes for perfume.......
ask him where he went and who he was with.......sometimes time just flies when you are having fun !
2007-04-27 23:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell was he all night? I would be really mad if my fella did that. I'd be so tempted to do it back to him tonight, if he has no problem doing it himself then there should be nothing at all wrong with you doing it, right? Just make sure you don't tell him what your up. Good luck and have some fun xx
2007-04-27 23:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Banny Grasher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and talk to him about it saying that you were really worried about it and anything could have happened to you. You would like a little more respect by him telling you when he's going to be back home if he can't start being more respectful and such you should walk.
2007-05-01 01:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first start by asking him where he been, then wait some time and do the same to him, just to see how he feels. but if u have this gut feeling that he was messing around, then i suggest that u need to think about this relationship. he need to know how to respect and tell him that Ur not putting up with s@!% like that1
2007-04-28 02:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unreasonalbe to be furious. I would be. If all was innocent why didn't he call you earlier to let you know he was going to a club, mates house, whatever. Even if he fell asleep at a mates, he should have called first to say he was staying late. Huh, some men eh!
2007-05-01 23:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by benjoe021 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he went and what he did first before telling him off. Then leave it alone if he says he done nothing wrong and if he does it again then you somethings going on and you can do something about it.
2007-04-27 23:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by karm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋