I am really bummed out. There was this guy I really liked who pursued me and after a while asked me out. We go out a few times (he took me to nice places), I start to like him more than I thought (but don't really express it...just go with the flow), he sends sweet emails to me and calls me cute little terms of affection. The clincher though is that he never showed any signs of affection (but made sexual innuendos) towards me except maybe a little touch here and there. He sent me total mixed messages.
So, after our last date (I guess it was not a date), I ask him why he never touches me etc. "Am I a friend or want to keep progressing???" I guess after 2 months, I should at least know so I can either stay or move on to someone else. I didn't ask for a relationship or commitment because I am not ready for that yet. I just wanted to know what was up.
His response was some lame he was too busy and overwhelmed for me.
He even introduced me to his family and friends last week.
2007-04-27 21:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Attorney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he had to do was say he was no longer interested in me rather than continuing to pursue me.
It was NOT until I asked him why he never touched me that he tweaked out.
2007-04-27 21:31:41 · update #1
Maybe he's gay and wants you as his fag hag!
2007-04-27 21:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by allears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grown men are just little boys in big kid's clothes. Some have an honest way of dealing with things, some don't. If he drives you nuts, move on!
2007-04-28 04:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TREAT HIM LIKE A FRIEND AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
2007-04-28 04:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a lesbian
2007-04-28 04:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋