There's this guy who is interested in me right now. I've agreed to go on a date with him. But the problem is I don't have any feelings for him. I can't communicate with him and he gets on my nerves sometimes! He's not very smart and we don't share the same interests.
The only good thing about this guy is that he is good tempered and never seems to get angry no matter what I do. He always gives in to me.
Should I give this guy a chance and try things out or should I just make things clear?
2007-04-27 19:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be cruel to be kind, dont keep him hanging on, give the guy his life and tell him the truth, dont make it worse , if you go out with him you would be getting a rock and hitting your own head, you know you are better than that.
2007-04-27 19:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto in life has been to date with every chance that comes along...It may just surprise you how he truly is away from wherever you guys see each other regularly. The girl I am seeing now is the complete opposite of how I thought she truly was. On first impression before a date I thought she might have been an unfaithful girlfriend or a lil promiscuous in the past due to rumors. I have taken the last 3 years to get to know her and realize after she took off with other bf's that she truly wasn't that way. She would completely stop talking to me when she dated guys and when they would break up then our friendship became closer. I think now we have the recipe to work things out....so yeah go ahead and get to know this guy one on one...YOU MAY BE SHOCKED
2007-04-27 19:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make things clear, that you dont like him in any romantic way, Tell him that you like him as friends and that if he need someone to talk to you will be there. If you date some one that you have no romantic attraction to, it will make the relationship suffer and you may loose a good friend
2007-04-27 19:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by privatecop625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with just going on one or two dates with him to see if you start to feel something for him, but if you still don't after that then obviously there's no point in having a relationship.
2007-04-27 19:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Leahl00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been on one date that's not long enough to really get to know someone-give it a little time but don't be surprised if you're not already in love with him and don't want to admit it.
2007-04-27 19:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Joan J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think things will end on it's own. Because you will get sick of all the passive stuff, and you guys will just quit. Sounds very blah...find someone who makes you weak in the knees and HAPPY. You deserve it!
2007-04-27 19:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think tht u will be able to do justice with him???do u think he brings lots of happiness to u??and the main thing is tht if u r nt gonna be with him then dont give him hopes tht u will be with him coz it will break his hear and u wont klike tht...u do datre with him nd try to know abt him and dont compar with ur ex........it z life and u must give someone something what he desires and u must take what u wnt....it will keep ur relationship last longer so dont worry just date with him right now and know what u want exactly and will he be giving u???????
2007-04-27 20:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea give him a chance
2007-04-27 19:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE THINGS CLEAR AND END IT RIGHT NOW. HE DESERVES BETTER.
2007-04-27 19:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-27 19:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by kfjads k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋