(We're 14. Its a hard-knock life, i know :] )
I have a friend. She isnt gorgeous, but she has pretty big boobs for our age and is a size 2 and she's blonde. She has a good personality when we are hanging out, but around guys, shes all fake, but they still like her just because of how she looks.
On the other hand, I'm brunette, size 6, pretty (not trying to brag, I just want a realistic answer), and somewhat shy when guys come around. How come she always seems to get all of their attention when all they've got to talk about is her cup size and making out? (lol, im being just a bit dramatic) But seriously, do real nice guys even exist? My 15 year old brother even asked me to hook them up! I thought guys were supposed to ask you out not only because they think you're cute, but because they think you're sweet, smart, funny, kind...am I right or have I yet to face a harsh realization?
2007-04-27 18:24:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Real nice guys exist, although we never get noticed or given much credit for it in the long run. These guys talking to her are not the type you want to draw in anyway. All they want is in her pants and she looks easy then that's what these guys are drawn to. Size 6 is perfect, it used to be the standard size for models believe it or not. You got nothing to worry about some guys like shy women, it can be tough if you let it keep you from showing a guy your into him though just remember that.
-NmD!
2007-04-27 18:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've heard there's lots of fish in the sea. Well it's true for every hundred unworthy guys there is sure to be one who is sweet,smart and funny. You just have to keep looking. Remember alot of guys are attracted to big breasts and that's all they care about are looks. Don't take that personally, if you know your pretty some day a nice guy will come around and tell you that too. Nice guys do exist it's just like looking for a needle in the haystack, It may just take awhile. Be patient and good luck.
2007-04-28 01:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right.But boys who are 14 don't really think the way you do.Their hormones are taking controll of their brain and all they see is cup size.You be who you are.Never change your ways for anybody.You gonna end up with high respect and the real man who will value your good qualities.I was kind of like you in high school.There was only one guy who asked me out.I couldn't stand him.I could tell the others felt sorry for me.It hurt at the time.After collage there was a very nice list of good men asking me out.I am married with a guy who is crazy about me,who is very handsome and very secure financially.We have two beautifull children and we are happy.The popular girls are over 35 and still looking for a husband.They have been used and abused and left alone.Now i feel sorry for them.I am sure a smart girl like you knows what i mean.
2007-04-28 01:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by avavu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys only care about looks. But there are guys out there that want a girl for real qualities. You can't say all guys only care about looks because no one is the same and that'd be you speaking for some people only. If any guy wants to go out with you because you suddenly look good, the relationship will only last like, one date.
2007-04-28 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give your friend some slack. She may be insecure in areas your not, like having self-confidence and that's why she acts the way she does. I think that men will always like women with big boobs, but I also think 10 years from now it wont matter because a man will want to marry a woman that is intelligent and beautiful. Why do you think Jackie got JFK and Marilyn didn't?
2007-04-28 01:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by jusbnhonest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think sometimes you are just in the wrong circle of the world!!! Yes absolutely there are guys who still exists.. and trust me I know ;-) Again its only natural for guys to be attracted to a gals pretty body... but what also matters big time is internal beauty.. that's where nice guys are different!!!! So be hopeful and you will find someone.... Be patient and someone will appear!!! Best of luck...
2007-04-28 01:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young and you can tell. At your age boys really only want one thing and it aint just a kiss on the lips. As you get older the boys began to mature and then realize that it is about what is in the inside that counts. Just give it time you'll get a guy. Your only 14
2007-04-28 01:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Princess17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose you!
If I do, there will be other guys that will too.
The way I see it, a sweet, kind, real girl is better than a phony stick. You're just the type of person a guy good guy wants. Have patience, you're young, you'll find each other, and it'll be special.
2007-04-28 01:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are worth the wait. They might not be the cutest but they will deffinately last longer. If your friend is always getting guys flirting with her just to use her she wont be happy in the future because she may never find a guy that takes her seriously. You are lucky.
2007-04-28 01:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think its jus cuz her cup size.Well I have a big cup size also.DD's are a HUGE resonsibility.And you know guys usually talk to me to get a reason to look at themBut they come around and realize that there is more to a girl than her bra size.I wish all guys would realize that.Dont you?
2007-04-28 01:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋