I cant stop him... he just gets jelous, and now he's thinking of breaking up, because he doesnt like the way he is when he's jelous... but it's not like im flirting with other guys. Im so confused
2007-04-27 17:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not flirting with other guys. He got hugged by another girl the other day (pardon my French but, shes a real skank) and I didnt care, b/c I knew he loves me. And shes a skank, and I didnt even second guess him. Some guy just looked at me, and he gets pissed.
2007-04-27 18:06:12 · update #1
careful, because that's a warning sign of an unhealthy relationship, and that means a relationship that can turn abusive, verbally or physically or both. Does he want to know where you are all the time? Does he want you to dress unattractively so guys won't look at you? Even if you say no to those question-- he is immature to be jealous, he should trust enough in you that other guys looking at you should not bother him. Think about him and your future very carefully.
2007-04-27 17:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really can't handle it, then he's not right for you. He should be thankful he has a girl who is so beautiful that all these guys are checking her out, he should be flaunting you, showing you off to the world. Saying this is my girlfriend, she is beautiful and i love her, not getting jealous, have a talk but if it doesnt work, then i guess its over, because it's not working out.
2007-04-27 17:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him people are gonna look regardless and he needs to grow up cause jelousy is very childish especially over a stupid reason..i mean i could see if u were checkin them out too or flirtin with them back then of course he has a right to be angry but u cant do anthing about guys checkin u out its life deal with it.
2007-04-27 17:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~!Mz.R0ckSt4r(irock)~! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a control method. You are supposed to tell him not to go, that his jealousy is ok. He has some issues he needs to work out. Probably in your own best interest to agree with him and end the relationship.
2007-04-27 17:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i can so sympathize with you....i have the same problem. he doesn't think i'm flirting by any means but he just gets jealous. all you can do is ensure him that your with him and no one else. And maybe, if possible, tone it down with the other guys to show your boyfriend that you actually care what he thinks. if thats too much or if that doesn't work...maybe (unfortunately) its not meant to work
2007-04-27 17:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's somewhat normal for him to be jealous. your his gf not theirs and just because they are looking at you (checking you out) doesnt mean your going to go flirt with them. my bf was like this but only because i have alot of guy friends and like to dress really nice, i cant help if other guys look. Talk to your bf and tell him what you feel about all this. he'll inderstand.
2007-04-27 17:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's extremely controlling. He did no longer have the stunning to erase all your telephone contacts. Thats the 1st sign of a administration freak, they artwork to isolate from acquaintances, kinfolk. And his jealously is gonna be a huge problem afterward... I want you success! in case you reside with him your going to nedd it!!
2016-12-29 12:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problem not yours - he is insecure, probably from past bad experiences. He needs to chill out and know that other guys are envious of him and you should reassure him that he is your one and only. However if he cant get over it you should move on because it will get worse if he cant get his head straight.
2007-04-27 17:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by zappafan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up sexy, let him see other guys are checking you out but kiss him and assure him you're only with him. If he's stupid enough he doesn't notice he's jealous of something he already has, well... the merrier when someone takes it away.
2007-04-27 17:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Don Magias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously an insecure little boy. A man who knows his girl isn't going anywhere wouldn't be like that.
2007-04-27 17:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Raspberry Vodka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋