just started dating this girl somewhat recently and she is currently staying with me.
First a little background, I used to have a couple friends who i later realized were not good people and hurt my life very bad. and just recently i had decided to expel them from my life completely.
Now my girlfriends is friends with those people and they are coming back into my life causing more pain to me. I dont know what i should do as i have already tried talking to her and i cant ignore them. please help
2007-04-27 15:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by heavy_metal_rocker_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know about the past and let her know that you don't want to be around them at all. Tell her if she goes with them that is fine however you will not go. Do this showing her respect. If she keeps putting you in rough spot you may want to think about loosing her too cause she put you back in the same spot.
Good luck I hope it all works out.
2007-04-27 15:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you that much, you need to think long term. Are you willing to put up with them to be with her? Or is she willing to give them up to stay with you?
This would be a worse situation if you two were dating long-term, but since this is a new relationship, this situation can be easily taken care of. Since you can't expect her to give up her friends to be with you, you should maybe consider finding someone else. There's lots of other options. You shouldn't limit yourself to someone who doesn't respect your opinion.
Just think, there may be other incidents that you both don't agree on further down the road. It seems to me like she is trying to take advantage of you already.
2007-04-27 22:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q. do you can talk to her... about it.... well you can't tell her to whom she can be friends.... I think if you like this girl.. I think is time you move that mouth... but remember turn the table when you do this because... you need to think how she feel if she have the same problem that you have now... how much you like this girl? enough to still ingnore this or to bring this up...
good luck..
2007-04-27 22:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her exactly how you feel & ask her to respect your feelings. Tell her why you expelled them from your life &, if she still doesnt listen, you may have to expel her too.
2007-04-27 22:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi think you'll have to have another talk with your Girlfriend & trying explainging to her that it is really upsetting you that she is hanging around with people that hurt you. Good Luck
2007-04-27 22:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Daytripper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can NOT tell your girlfriend who she should be-friend with. That is her decision. You can talk to her about what your friends did to you, and she can make her own decision.
Other than that.... you have a tough decision to make. You can choose who you'd associate with.
2007-04-27 22:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like...your multiple personalities are coming back to haunt yo ***. To solve the this problem, get a bottle of tequila (cheap one) and take your ho out and tap that ***.
2007-04-27 22:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by MrG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hUn u know exactly what u need to do....DITCHin time....Your g/f obviously doesnt care about you as much as you or she thinks she does(damn...blahha...tounge twister). Apparently she likes her recreational hobbies(habits)better.
Give her one last chance to choose...then go from there...I was given a choice...I chose him...he chose to go it on his own.
2007-04-27 22:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋