I am a girl. I have goals..I want to travel, go to college, just experience life...and I dont want to get caught up with anything that would side track me from those goals....
what if I think I like a boy?...but I know that I dont want to get involved because I dont want a relationship at this point in time...
how can I focus on what I want...
2007-04-27 12:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can date him , and lots of other guys as long as your honest .
Tell them you are focused on school and things and are dating multiple guys but not getting serious .
As long as you are upfront about it Not being exclusive ,
The the other person is free to choose if that works for them or not .
Live , do school , travel , date , AND be honest .
Enjoy !
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2007-04-27 12:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting boys, hooking up and getting to know each other is all part of the whole.
To focus to intently on just these goals will mean you missing out on LIFE. You may one day reach your destination and look around you and you will be all alone. And whereever you are - it is so much more when it is shared.
Just because you meet a boy and even if you were to fall in love - that does not mean that all would have to be forsaken. it may mean that you will have someone to lean on, to provide that little bit of distraction you will need when you feel that your head is going to burst with all the knowledge you are trying to stuff in it!
Life is more than a good career - life is something that teaches you everyday. It teaches you love, sharing, working and striving together. If and when you meet THE ONE - i am sure that he will be more than willing to do every thing in his power to encourage you to your dreams.
And never forget - you are in charge of your life - you make the decisions about what you are going to do with it.
Best of luck and have a very happy future!
2007-04-27 12:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by isobellistowel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you have all those ambitions and if work on them, they will happen.
One problem with dating, is that you can never tell, when you will find one, that you might fall in love with.That can set you back a bit. Then you have to decide what you want more, his love or your ambitions.
So you need to be determined, and just play the field, and keep all your relationships, casual.
So keep to your goals, and it will all work out for you.
Why should only men, have ambitions, so go for your dreams. Love and marriage will wait a bit until you finish college at least.
2007-04-27 12:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Girls need loving too. A date is not a lifelong commitment. Date, have fun. Enjoy.
2007-04-27 12:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll always be alone if all you care about is yourself, you can still do great things even if you're with someone, just learn to multitask.
2007-04-27 12:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoiding guys is inpossible.
but not totaly.
good luck...
2007-04-27 12:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Boot-Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋