One of my guy friends and I were walking in the hallway and after I said something jokingly, he pinched my butt like in a playful manner and he usually grabs my hand or side or hip or something as I passing by him in the hallway when we say hi
2007-04-27 11:47:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is the highest form of a complement a man can give to a girl, when in the Mediterranean area. Unfortunately for you, you are in USA.
Here someone just coped a feel, and implies that he finds you sexy and he can't keep his hands off of you. It can be a message to other guys that you are easy. In the world of dating, a feel is second base.
Watch what he will try to pinch next. He'll laugh while he does it to confuse you.. Whack him in the twins and laugh while you do it, to see if he likes it as being handled like merchandise. Your best move is to take one step away and look him straight in the eye, wait for him to start to say something. He will have a smile to confuse you. Interrupt him and say that you are not trash and will not tolerate being treated like trash. Keep eye contact. You will see his smile go away. Thats when you say, Don't let it happen again, ok?
He'll agree and his opinion about you will have climbed 3 whole levels up.
I've known you for a while, girl. You are not merchandise, nor would you want to be. You want someone who would care about you. !!!! Don't be confused !!! Wait til you find him, babe. He may even be someone too shy to approach you. In the mean time, become your own best friend, and keep up your self-respect and self-worth. You aren't trash, so don't act like one. Be a class act.
(HINT: It ain't me. I'm way too old for you. Besides I like my women a lot older than you.)
2007-04-27 15:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let him do that. Wack him in the nads immed!. He shouldn't feel he can grab any part of you. He's being very rude and overly familiar. He'll start to grab you anywhere, you don't out an end to it immed.
2016-07-27 00:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by GAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a baby boomer, and in my time it was hands off! I think it's a rude thing to do and find it disrespectful of the other person's privacy.
2007-04-27 11:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that's not something you feel comfortable with. He is being too familiar for a friend. Since it is in public, he may be doing it to show off to his friends.
2007-04-27 11:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by royal e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to go to the next level
2007-04-27 11:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by cmav1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about him, but I only do that to my girlfriend (and for obvious reasons, she has a nice butt) haha
2007-04-27 11:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did Not take it as a joke ,
He figures you want some quick sex and
He is willing to do it with you .
2007-04-27 11:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he has not learned to keep his hands to himself
2007-04-27 11:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oddly a flirty gesture or he's being a jerk!
In your case, he may be flirty!
2007-04-27 11:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♕Soulful Dreamer♕ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would mean that he is flirting - or at least trying to.
2007-04-27 11:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by MysticalMinds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋