I knew he was coming to get his stuff (he called) … but after he got his stuff he drove up and down my street --- 5 Times!!!
I don’t get it … he’s got the love of his life, the new life he wants … we’re not angry at each other or anything … if anyone gets to go psycho, it should be me … I can’t see why he’d be driving up and down my street.
I'd prefer not to ask him either because he twistes stuff too much, so I always have to read between the lines anyways.
Should I be worried ... or just write it off as a freak thing?
2007-04-27 10:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex drove past my house a lot after we broke up too... If you figure it out, let me know.
Honestly, I can't help but think he's trying to prove how over-you he is. Except he probably doesn't realize that he's absolutely insane.
2007-04-27 10:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by katie m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most likely reason is that he has not truly let go of you emotionally. He also knows you still have some unresolved feelings for him. He wants proof of this, so he is doing something to provoke you. If it works, he has won, and the two of you are still "enmeshed." Just like with children, ignore the bad behavior, and reward the good. It's just as powerful with adults as it is with kids. Okay, you don't give him the bag of M&Ms, but a gracious "thank you," will work. After you've thanked him for bringing the kids back on time, or whatever he's done that's worth thanking him for, a couple of times, don't thank him the third time. Then do it again, making the schedule of reinforcement irregular -that's the most powerful schedule of reinforcement. It even works on well-trained professionals.
2007-04-27 17:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this story is kinda funny.....The guys driving 5 times up and down ur block, welll i believe ur ex still has some feelings for u and some guys just like to rub it in sometimes. The question is who broke up with who. if u broke up with him, then its definatly him attempting to make u jelous by showing off his fiance, so just ignore him unless u have some feelings for him. if he broke up with u then again he may still have feelings for u and cant admit he did the wrong thing so hes trying to win u back (even though hes with his fiance). But overall u shouldnt be worried about these things because u both moved on and he has his own fiance. Like you said just write it off as a freak thing. Good Luck XD
2007-04-27 10:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mr.Jackie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 22:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got problems. He's obviously not happy with his new life. And can you imagine how happy the "new love of his life" is? I am sure she's thrilled to be driving passed your house 5 times!!! I think you should laugh!!! They are idiots and they deserve each other.
2007-04-27 10:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write it off as a freak thing. He's just trying to get a reaction out of you. Always remember, "Never let them see you sweat"
2007-04-27 10:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you keep watching out the window and see him driving up and down? (Bet you were hiding behind the curtain) He was probably just showing her stuff about the house and it took a couple passes.
2007-04-27 10:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, when I got divorced I somewhat stalked my wife (It isn't as bad as it sounds). I loved he still...and I still do. Getting over an ex is hard, sometimes too hard to avoid contact. Then again he could be doing it to be vendictive, only you would know based on his personality.
2007-04-27 10:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted access to the place when you were not home and was checking to see if you were still there? If it happens again, I would call police. If you rent, why not move and cut ties completely?
2007-04-27 10:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by hmw525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with his fiancee in the car??? that's fed up man! for now dont be worried but if he continues doing that i would confront him and put a stop to it immediatly...it shows to me as if he regrets what he had but at the same time the fiancee is in the car!!! poor girl man!!! honestly for now right it off but if he does it again get restraining order or confront him but someone with you if he looses his temper that person can help defend you [not saying that you cant defend yourself].
2007-04-27 15:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋