Couple of weeks ago I asked a close friend of mine out. She said that she "thought I was a cute guy, but les be friens". I didn't want to tell her that I liked her but one of my friends blurt it out. Now she rarely talks to me and when we talk its just simple talk nothing like the way we had it. Im losing hopes for me to tell her that I want her to be my friend but she just passes on by. We barely look each other in the eye anymore. She doesn't call and I guess in a way she made it seem that she doesnt want me to call...
2007-04-27 10:11:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not interested. It can't be any more obvious. If she liked you as much as you liked her, in the way you like her, she would have reciprocated, She didn't. Let it go otherwise it could make you look like you're pushing yourself on her, and that's not good.
2007-04-27 10:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's probably really awkward for her. She thought you guys were great friends, then you turned around and asked her out. (that's from her point of view; I think you're really brave for that) My advice: Don't try to bring things back to the way they were right away. Stay friendly with her, but make sure she knows that you are over her and only want to be friends (even if it's not true). If she's a good friend, she'll come around eventually.
2007-04-27 17:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by oxymoron1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels that You are not what she feels would fulfill her desires ,though she knows it is not something like a fault in you. She did however acknowledge that you are a Cute Guy. Now she feels you have taken that remark to be the green light of a romantic life which she did not intend to convey to you. So she is telling you so in a very sensible way.I think she is a sensitive person and would be grateful if you acknowledge the message. She deserves that much.
2007-04-27 17:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be irreparable.
You need to pull her aside and let her know that you value her friendship and you'd like to be her friend without any kind of dating/boyfriend pressure. Tell her you miss talking like you used to, and then it's all up to her.
She may be too uncomfortable with you now to ever go back to the way it was, but it's worth a try to come clean and be honest with her.
2007-04-27 17:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by LapisLazuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel bad right now. Because a friend of mine told me he had a crush on me, I didn't like hanging out with him anymore because I didn't want people to start thinking we were together.
2007-04-27 17:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell her you miss her friendship. Even if she doesn't want to go out with you, you still value her opinions and companionship, right? Make it clear to her she doesn't have to like you back, you'll be okay being platonic. If anything happens in the future, however, so be it!
2007-04-27 17:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space she seems to want. she probably feels a tad bit awkward around you at the moment but she will eventually get over it. Good luck to ya!
2007-04-27 17:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her.
let her know you still really care about her and you dont want to lose her friendship,
just say how you feel
& you hate ow akward it is.
apologize and ask her if you can go back to the way things were.
i'm sure thats all it takes.
good luck [=
2007-04-27 17:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by TORiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your just her friend make it clear to her and also say that your friend was playing with her etc.... looks like she just see u as a friend ONLY she doesnt have any feeling for you.
if you really want her back tell her you got a girlfriend ...!!!
2007-04-27 17:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by 1~n^*l^u#v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that happen now & then to alot of people so dont be despair.
Just move on & carry on with your life dont ponder on spilled milk it wont make matters any easier
2007-04-27 17:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by syed422004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋