2007-04-27 08:37:16 · 12 answers · asked by ^- ^ Cutie ^-^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Getting married is a stressful time in all couple's lives. You both need to take a few deep breaths and calm down and realize that it's a ceremony. It's not going to change who you are and how you feel about each other. After the wedding is over, the two of you will be just fine! Congratulations and good luck!
2007-04-27 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by samiam246 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you're both experiencing a good case of "pre-wedding jitters". Weddings are a stressful time and you're both under pressure, try to relax and remember why you're here in the first place! Not everything should turn into a battle right now so try and think about that before you open your mouth to bite back.
Don't sweat the small stuff!
Best wishes for a calm wedding day!
2007-04-27 08:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your wedding is in 6 days, he's not your husband yet. And it's normal at this point in wedding planning to be stressed and angry with everyone, and if you're taking it out on him, he's probably none too appreciative of it. Try to take it easy and relax. And if you're having serious 2nd thoughts about this, beyond what is considered "cold feet" it is still not too late to cancel the wedding.
If you've been married for 6 days, and you and your husband are having lots of arguements, you've got problems. Seek counseling soon.
2007-04-27 09:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax!!! The arguments are caused by stress. My husband and I got married last Saturday. We normally don't argue. Of course we have disagreements just like everyone else. But we were under so much stress that we were bitting each others heads off for no reason. Now things are great no more stress!!
2007-04-27 10:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by emmaleighsmom2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal...My best friends husband of 22 years, got drunk and punched in house door the night before and I have never seen a happier couple...
Its just tensions...Too much going on.
2007-04-30 17:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to prioritize what is important and what is not. Some things are not worth fighting over. Save your arguments for the things that really matter.
2007-04-27 08:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by ginaforu5448 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the expression "arguing like a newly-weds"??
Newly-wed couples tend to argue at the beginning, but it either gets better or worse in time. In my parents case, it got worse...........
So don't fret and have hope
oh, and CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
I wish you many years of happiness, prosperity, and long life
2007-04-27 09:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Black Hayate 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THIS SOUNDS LIKE STRESS ARGUMENTS. THAT
IS NORMAL FOR THE TWO OF U TO HAVE SEVERAL
DISAGREEMENTS BEFORE UR WEDDING. PLANNING
A WEDDING CAN BE A HIGH MOUNTAIN TO CLIMB,
BUT THINK OF THE OUTCOME,,,,,, IT WILL ALL BE
FORGOTTEN SOON...... I WISH U THE BEST AND MUCH
HAPPINESS TO U BOTH.......
2007-04-27 08:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
Are you saying you and your Fiance are getting married in six days and are having problems? Tell him it's off until he mature's more and is ready to get married. Of course, if you're the problem then you need to mature more.
Good luck.
2007-04-27 08:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
pre-wedding jitters... you obviously love each other you keep returning to argue with each other.
2007-04-29 16:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by sakiboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋