Hi all,
I feel a little bored those days, since I can't find someone and at most because I can't find some girl at least to like her. I am 21, but have no experience in that "love" things. I still cant figure out what might be the problem. And I think people are dishonest when they say "you will find it when you don't look" or so...- it doesn't sound true to me...such an easy solutions :). I am lazy now to describe myself in detail...at most I can give several pictures of me:
http://s174.photobucket.com/albums/w119/bacarddi/Ego/
Thats all for now, thanks :)
2007-04-27 08:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all takes time.
2007-04-27 08:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 21, you're too young to have a girlfriend, and too young to know what love is yet. What you should be doing is playing the field, dating different girls and having as much sex as you possibly can. Why are you in such a rush to be in a relationship, at this stage in your life a relationship can only hold you back.
Are you in college? If not, you should be. You should be going to college and getting a career going, and dating girls and having sex when you have time, but you shouldn't be committing or falling in love with anyone yet. Once you are out of college and are working in a career, that's the time you can start having girlfriends.
You don't realise how lucky you are to be a 21 year old guy and have no girlfriend! Live it up, or you'll regret it later in life.
2007-04-27 08:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you how to fall in love. You'll know it when you do though. It hits you and you fall hard. Most of the time you can't even explain why you're in love with someone. It's just something in the core of your being that tells you, you can't live the rest of your life without this person in it.
As far as finding a girlfriend, what people say is often right. It finds you when you're not looking. I think one reason why this is true at times is psychological, and metaphysical. When one is searching for a partner, relationship, boyfriend or girlfriend, etc, it can sometimes be too obvious. If you look desperate to find a girlfriend, girls will back off because no woman wants to date a man who is desperate. It makes girls think about themselves as "he's so desperate to find someone does that tell me I'm a last resort, a bottom-of-the-barrel type person because he couldn't find anyone else?" Desperation is not at all attractive to the opposite sex. f you just relax, act like you don't care and just be yourself, some lucky girl will be attracted to you like a magnet.
2007-04-27 08:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is true "you will find it when you least expect it." Yes it might sound untrue. But believe me it will happen. Because when you are looking, you expect everyone to be "the one" and the thing is that they might not be. Quit looking and enjoy just speaking to everyone. Keep your doors open to everyone. Don't have a picture of what you want your girlfriend to look like because you might just meet someone who is opposite of what you were picturing, and end up marrying this girl. Be optimistic. And well you are a very good looking guy. At least I think so.
2007-04-27 08:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by BooBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried differnt dating things. There is one i like. Its called the lock and key event. The men get a key and the women get a lock. well you have to talk to as many women as possible to find the person with your lock. The more people you talk to the more locks you open and can win prizes. I met alot of people when i did that. Go to google and put in lock and key party. they go all over the country. There is one next week where i live in teh tampa bay area
2007-04-27 08:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by tamparav 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The coolest part about finding your soulmate/true love is that he/she comes when you least expect it, when you are not ready for it, and you dont know what to do about it.
Stop looking. They could have crossed paths already with you and you totally missed it.
And LOL at Me Again, he's a lying sack of dung. A FEWdollars! LMAO!
2007-04-27 08:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey dont feel bad i feel the same way about love and people
dont worry im sure u will find the perfect girl when ur not even expecting to
2007-04-27 08:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself, I found my wife at a prostitute joint. I would also look into some matchmaking agencies if I were you. They can get you a wife for very little money and she is your slave for life.
2007-04-27 08:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Me again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hrrmmm.. there isn't rules to falling in love... it just happens... naturally... let love come to you.. don't go out lookin for love... cause when love finds u... you wouldn't know what hit you... *be patient.... you'll be rewarded...
2007-04-27 08:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by >>shayy<< ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-27 08:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by victor h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋