My Ex Boyfriend?

Question

I really miss my ex bf. We were together for a little over a year and a half and we broke up, because things just didn't work out. Even though we kinda had a bad break up, I still really would like to start over and try again. Now that I think about it, the problems we had were not that bad, we didn't cheat on each other or nothing like that, we just had two diff goals in life and i think we just had to find a way to work things out with ourselfs b4 we got back together. Do think I should tell him how I feel or let it go? I know he still loves me, he tells me all the time..I don't know where to start by working us out. And if I do tell him, how should I bring it up

Answer 1

What's the story about the break up? What happened? One of the things about a relationship there's allot to work out. It's not easy. In fact all couples fight. Some times you have stop your man from doing some thing wrong. Nor that he might regret later. It's not all joy and happiness.
You two should support each others goals. A friend is a friend. Help each other.
If you want to get back together. A long hug and some tears is all you need, you do not have to say anything. That should be good enough to make a point.

Answer 2

IJ,
Baby girl if love was meant to be it will be " If you love someone let them go and if it come back to you then it was might for a lifetime"
understand we all had our break-ups in life and our make ups, be a friend right now to him show him that you are true to yourself and that you love him, so just be a friends if it's meant for you two to get back together then it'll just happened without your control or his so just leave it be..
I know that it hurts and I know that for the past years and months that it was the "we" instead of "I" so that change is hard but it a step. If you were not suppose to learn this life lesson then it would not have happened to you and him so take it one day at a time as a matter of fact this is the best time to show him what he is missing.
So do things things and you'll get the man you or any man you wants
1. Always look good even if you are going to the corner store.
2 start going to the gym great place to meet new people.
3 every week say you have planes even if you don't
4. Treat yourself (shoes is my way)
5. call him every now again and see hows he is doing and whats new act like you care.. and when the phone call gets quite say you have to run you have to take care of somethings.
6. let him know that you still love him and care and you will always be there for him....
7. MOST important DO NOT DO NOT sound like you want him back at any time, always stay happy and complete with your self.

Answer 3

I think that before you get together you should have a serious talk about goals and where you want to go. Life does have a fair amount of compromise, but you need to be on the same page! Discuss things HONESTLY and make sure that you are not agreeing just for the sake of getting back together. Remember, there is a reason you two split up in the first place. Maybe it was a mistake, but you need to be certain about that before you make any kind of decision.

I think alot of us have given thought to getting back with our ex's at some point in time. But in some cases that would just mean happiness for now, and misery for later. In my case that would have meant having children which I have never wanted and never have. I found a woman who shared my views and subsequently married! I still think about my ex once and a while, but never regret the decision of not getting back together.

Think it out!

Answer 4

i broke up with my ex last november, on thanksgiving. we wre together for 3 years, we were engaged, and everything. we had problems, and we probably werent the best for each other but i did what i thought i should have done. i miss him so much. the last thing i told him was that i wasnt in love with him anymore. i havent heard from him since, cut ive talked to his friends that hes staying with and hes been on meth for the last 6 months. i realize now that i left him for all the wrong reasons and i was just being selfish. we had so many problems but the thing i left him for was another man. we probably could have worked everything out if i wasnt destroying us. i dont know why i was doing it, i dont know what i was thinking. but now its too late, ive fallen in love with someone else, but christopher is always in the back of my head and hes always going to be in my heart. he was my first EVERYTHING, my first kiss, the person i lost my virginity to, the only person who could make me smile when everything was going wrong. but i ruined everything because of what hes become now, there is no going back, whether i want to or not. so basically im saying if the feeling is still there, and hes still waiting for you, do it. because there is nothing worse than realizing one day that you lost the best thing you eve had because you couldnt comprimize. if worse comes to worse all youd have to do is break up again, but that would be better than never knowing what could have been. i told christopher to wait for me, all i needed was time, but he couldnt give it, and i couldnt take it. just follow your heart. ((sorry about the long story, your story just made me think of mine and i think about it everyday and i guess i just had to tell someone else))

Answer 5

You should talk it out with him. I would bring it up by saying that you've been doing a lot of thinking and...(fill in the blank)

Answer 6

You have to tell him..you don't wanna be that person in life that always says what if...just do it

Answer 7

talk to him about it - if u have those feelings let him know that - if u had a relationship before it shouldnt be hard to talk