premarital sex??? ur opinions plzz?

Question

what is an appropriate age for sex?? is it true all men and teenage guys want is sex alot of the time?

and on may 11 i am goin to the movies i am also inviting guys how much in advance should i ask them?

Answer 1

To answer your question about teenage guys...YES and most men through until about 30 or at 30 and if they haven't fully mentally matured it can last a life time. It's really sad...but you can usually spot those weasels.

I think and appropriate age is 18; but if you do earlier than that just make sure that you are protected from diseases. Even if you are on birth control, you need to use a condom b/c the guy you are sleeping with could have some disease.

Ask them to the movie at least 3 days in advance; say it's on Friday, ask them before Wednesday. I have a huge book of etiquette.

Good luck to you and remember to be careful and be safe....even if he fights you on the condom thing......just remember if he really cares for you he'll do it....that's how you weed out those weasels!

Answer 2

There's really no appropriate age, only an appropriate maturity level. If you're ready to go to the OBGYN regularly and be responsible enough to use birth control and be able to be discreet about it, then you MIGHT be ClOSE to ready. Anyone who flaunts their personal business is asking for trouble. It's a private matter. Being a young age, you don't want to be with anyone that's going to disrespect you and tell everyone your business. When you're young and going through "changes" your emotions are all over the place. Having sex before you can control your emotions is going to leave you stressed and heartbroken. And what if you get pregnant? YOu should really think about this before you decide to do it.

And as far as the movies, the 8th would be good. You don't want to make plans any earlier cuz it gives time for new plans to come up. If you wait much longer, they might already have plans.

Answer 3

i agree that waiting is the best way to go, that way you are more likely to make a better decision when the time does come. I definitely think that waiting until you are, at the very least, out of high school is a great idea. But I also think that it totally depends on the person who is in the situation.

In my situation I decided to wait until I was married because that is just what felt right for me. But I started dating a guy that I grew up with and our parents have all been friends since way before we were born. We decided almost a year into the relationship that we were going to get married once we are out of school, and eventually became intimate. And we will probably get married w/in the next two years. This was right for our lives, but I am sure not right for every person.

Like I said, it all depends on your situation, just do what your heart and instinct tell you - not your hormones.

And yes, I think, although I am not a guy, that guys do want sex pretty much all of the time. Just like girls do at certain times in their lives, I think that we reach our sexual peaks at different times in our lives which can be frustrating.

But as long as you find the right guy who respects you, this will not be a problem because he will not make you do anything that you don't want to. And if you take your time in finding out about a guy before going out, you will get a good idea if his intentions really are about you or just the possibility of having sex.

Answer 4

Is may 11th when the movie is first coming out? You can start talking about it anytime if it is. Say something like your really excited to see it, and you will be going then. Sex involves many emotions, its not something to step into just on the spur of the moment. Teenage guys think sexually all the time, but a good number of them aren't having sex if the girls their around are level headed... don't compare yourself to others, just because someone is doing something don't mean you have to. Sex will not keep a relationship together either... no matter what you have heard about it..

Answer 5

I think an appropriate age to have sex is the age at which you would be able to take care of a baby if you become pregnant. Don't just have sex "because everyone else is" be smarter then that, if you're going to engage in premarital sex(i'm not saying having sex before marriage is wrong) just make sure that you use protection, and that you will be ready to take care of child, if you become pregnant. And yes most teenage guys want sex....their sex drive is at its peak in their late teens. It's not their fault, it's hormones.

Answer 6

18.
I don't think teens should have sex. At 18 you are an adult by law.

Don't just give it up to the first guy who wants you- any guy wants you if they know you'll put out.

I was almost 19 when I first had sex. I was in a long term relationship (which I'm still in) had a job, money in the bank, my own apartment, etc etc and I was on the pill and using condoms.

I think that teens think sex will make them popular but in reality sex makes you a parents.

as for the movies ask them a week in advance and a few days before the movie ask them to see if they're still going.

Answer 7

You should probably wait until you're 18. I was 18 when I first had sex, I'm glad now I didn't do it as a minor. A lot of guys think about sex a lot, its true.

2nd question - I would just ask 2-4 days in advance. The movies isn't too hard to fit into you're schedule.

Answer 8

You do not say how old you are. So, this question cannot be
answered.

I beleive all couples have sex before marriage--the average
age for a girl is 16. But, I doubt a person that young understands sex at that age. You could be like me and wait
till you are a senior in college--by waiting I think that is the reason my marriage has lasted 35yrs and still going!

Answer 9

Please do yourself a favor and wait until your older. Yes, Yes, Yes, most teenage boys want to have sex. There are a few that are descent and respectful but they are few and far between. (Sorry guys) The guys and I talked so badly about the girls who were promiscuous and I would hate to see anyone being the joke of the guys. If you do get into a serious relationship and decide to do this then please be sure to talk with an adult first. I know that sounds crazy but it may save a bit of heartache in the future.

Ask them a week in advance for the date.

Answer 10

1. As early as you want. Maybe a week or so beforehand so you can arrange travel etc.
2. As long as both partners are aware of the facts, in a steady relationship and emotionally ready, then it is fine to have sex in any form. However make sure you use contraception, otherwise you're likely to pick up an STD or even become pregnant. Also be sure of the legal age for sexual intercourse where you live. The age varies from country to country, and in the US from state to state.