I mean, it happens all the time, correct?
The guy is really hot and has a nice body and he's dark and has great hair and a butt I want to eat my breakfast off of. I would really like to have sex with him. What are the ramifications?
2007-04-27 06:46:48 · 18 answers · asked by Turd_In_The_Pool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How true is the saying that a woman's enemy is another women. I'm sure if you were married you wouldnt mind sharing your husband with some girl he works in the office with. I mean, it happens all the time, correct?
2007-04-27 06:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nearly all places of employment have rules on employee fraternizations and if he and you have a direct reporting relationship (boss/subordinate) it would be prohibited under company policy.
Policies on co-workers not in a direct reporting relationship vary and sometimes there are no policies one way or another; only way to know for sure is check an employee handbook, if you were given on, or with your manager
It never is a good idea to date a co-worker because if it doesn't work out in your personal life, you still have to see them everyday and, like it or not, have to treat them with courtesy and respect even if they have totally dogged you out.
Ramifications are if he is a married, whether you end up hooking up or not, would be you are likely to get a reputation as a "hussy" which is career suicide. Manager's won't consider you as promotable no matter how hard or how well you do at work due to your poor judgement in your persona life. Co-workers will exclude you from the inner circle of information and social gatherings as they don't want you around.
If he said no and you continued to pursue him, be charged with sexual harrassment. Worst case scenario would be you could end up being fired from your job.
2007-04-27 06:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOOOOO JUST because "it happens all the time"... cheats and has careless sexual encounters @ work, that makes it ok???? If you're asking this question, do you really care what anyone else has to say???
You seem like you have your mind made up. Regardless of what anyone says, you're gonna do what you feel is best for you.
You know the consequences, girl, don't be dumb...
- Physical ( you'll likely want more)
- Emotional ( you're going to get attatched)
- If he's married you could **** up a good relationship, homewrecker!
- Professional: Things are likely to be awkward at work, you might lose focus, one of you might lose your job
SOOOOO MANY more reasons... this is just a freaking trainwreck waiting to happen. DON'T do this... just my opinion.
2007-04-27 06:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean what are the ramifications? are you ignorant? you know the ramifications! You can lose your job, your self respect, whoa wait, you don't have any self respect, so take that back, you break up a family, you are a slut, you will be named in a divorce, doesn't that make you sound amazingly intriguing? and delightful? I just want to get to know someone with that much character. you make me sick,
2007-04-27 07:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should go for it. But just when you are getting attached to this guy someone else like yourself is going to come along and take him from you. You need to take a long look in the mirror!!!!!!! Think of someone else besides yourself. Think of what you will be doing to his family!!! Do you want to be a homerecker just because you can't control yourself? There are plenty of SINGLE men out ther!!!!!!!!
2007-04-27 07:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could say if she could then she is extremely lonely, bored, searching for an exciting new lover, and unattracted to her husband. Her husband is in all likelihood buried to his eyeballs in artwork so he ignores her, have been given to be best pals with the television, would not compliment her anymore, takes issues with none attention that she does for the kin, placed on a sprint weight, would not use that helpful cologne he used to, lost that romantic way approximately him, in no way takes her out, blah blah blah.... however the different married guy has one fault that yours would not and thats being a rat! sure new intercourse is tempting yet not worth it. good luck
2016-10-13 22:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!! This cannot end well, for either of you. Only if he gets a divorce soon. It may be great in the beginning, hot sex, excitement, etc, but when that wears off, it will not have been worth it. He's taken, respect that, desire him from afar.
2007-04-27 06:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Svetlana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!! First of all don't ever mess around with someone at work cos if it doesn't work out you have to see his face everyday at work. Second, don't fool around with a married man, he just wants to use you...you're gonna get hurt.
2007-04-27 06:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't ! He is a married man and should be respected . What if he has kids and they find out? What if his wife leaves him because you had a lustful fling with him? Would you want that on your conscience?
2007-04-27 06:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!?
Hes married!
Back off
I'm pretty sure when you have someone you love and care about you wouldn't want some sleezy girl trying to get to your man
2007-04-27 06:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋