2007-04-27 06:43:09 · 46 answers · asked by ashley i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have sex with some other boy.
2007-04-27 06:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about it! all young people think about is being with someone and sex. A guy will promise you the moon if you just do one thing for him.....Then he never wants to see you again. Guys think of nothing but sex all the time. It is their nature, or the way they were made. He just scored with another stupid girl who believed what he said.. And a guy knows HE can't get pregnant and have his life ruined......just for sex ........Sorry, Truth does hurt..
You learned a hard lesson. Now just go out there and concentrate on being a good student and daughter. Don't make the same mistake twice. It's not worth the risk of getting pregnant or getting a disease..
2007-04-27 06:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the key word is "like". Has he told you that he loves you often enough? Does he phone/text/email you the next day after the sex? Does his kisses linger and his eyes shine later? Is he distant, distracted or seemingly unbothered when around you? And finally are YOU satisfied with the attention he gives you?
If you dont like the answers to these questions then a heart to heart talk with him is long overdue.
2007-04-27 06:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by michelle d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*I don't mean to sound harsh, but odds are you were used.*
-I am sorry though that you had feelings for this guy, and I know it's not your fault. You can't control your emotions.
*Anyways I think that he did in fact use you for sex, and now he has no desire to talk to you anymore. He got what he wanted from you, and he pretty much peaced out after.
~I am not going to knock you for it, it's happened to me and PLENTY of other guys and girls before...whether they admit it or not, everyone has been used at some point sexually. And otherwise.
*So if I were you, I would not be so hard on yourself, and I would not put so much emphasis on trying to figure out why he's been distant from you ever since. Think of this as a lesson you can learn from. Now you know better right? Right.
.Move on. He's not worth your time, if you aren't worth his.
2007-04-27 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking frankly as a guy, sweetie, the truth is most guys only want sex. I recommend valuing yourself and your body enough to save it for someone who has promised before God to love you forever. My wife did that and I consider it the greatest gift she could ever have given me. Guys have this double standard where we all want to marry a virgin, but at the same time want to pressure girls into having sex with us. So when you feel that pressure, just assure whoever it is that by not having sex, you're actually doing what he really wants.
2007-04-27 06:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymonkey143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view, he used you for sex plain and simple. He now wants to find someone else to have sex with. Sounds like you are going after the wrong guys.
2007-04-27 06:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was just using you for sex in the first place.....take this as a lesson learned and next time make sure that you are in a serious relationship before you sleep with someone
2007-04-27 06:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon..he just used for sex, and now that he's had it with you, he's on to someone else...jumping in bed with someone is NOT the pathway to love. Trust me when I tell you that guys will use you, if you let them.
Remember, guys only WANT what they THINK THEY CANNOT HAVE....act accordingly...
You will never have a relationship with someone if you are quick to jump in bed...you would not be "girlfriend" or "wife" material...guys want a woman they can respect...and who respects herself more than that...
2007-04-27 06:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother him. Guys do it all the time to get you into bed. If you leave him alone he will be back later. In the meantime don't keep your schedule open. He will see that you are still moving on without even worrying about him and it will make him want you more if he was really interested.
2007-04-27 06:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have more self-respect anyone will tell you they like you and if you are so easy they won't stick around after you have sex. I feel sorry for you. Grow up and make yourself happy because a boy can't make you happy if you are not happy with your self.
2007-04-27 06:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by db14 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He used you honey. Sorry, but you have to learn to no equate sex with love. If you enjoyed yourself during the sex, then you should chalk it up as a positive experience!
2007-04-27 06:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋