Have you ever been in this lonely situation?

Question

It's like this... truth is I'm lonely as HELL!! No woman to talk to, because i hardly ever see anyone, felt like I lost all my friends because I took to long to finally start actin mature and cool... no one wants to hang out with a goon in high school.... and because of that, I have hardly any friends that actually really have my back when times get hard. I've changed so much and I've become so cool, so people say, but many people think I'm still the same goon I was in school, the people that don't take time to know me, or who I haven't talked to in a long time or don't get to see. I don't wanna tell any of my friends this because I don't want them see how lonely I am, and I don't want them think of me as a real loser and finish lookin at me as a goon. I don't wanna tell any girl this, because obviously she'll see me as a loser and will be turned off. So I almost have no one to talk to. Everyone looks down on me.. even younger people. What did you do when you was in this situation?

Answer 1

don't sweat it dude, people who judge without knowing aren't worth talking about... get some new Friends go out and get a new hobby ex. skateboardin, snowboardin, mt biking.. I was in the same situation when my buddies went off to college I took another route and went into building trades, we still hang out but not as much, I also work outa town and stay in hotels all week, so I don't get out as much .... so I joined a gym and got into other things and met this awesome girl she means the world to me... so dude don't give up have some hope good luck bro o'yeah stay cool

Answer 2

Well sir to be honest I have been and still am in this situation. It started at a very young age I never had many friends, and the friends I did have are no longer my friends. As I started growing up I started isolating myself even more. So now I am at the point where I have isolated myself completely. All I do is go home and go to school. Sometimes I volunteer to help people, or I go to church every week. Other than that I have no social life, and I have no friends. So yah believe me sir I know how you feel. Noone to talk to, no gf to cuddle up to, nobody to hang with, no place to go. I feel as if I have no life, and as if I will be alone forever. But hey this is what I did to myself. I am afraid to talk to people, im afraid to make friends, heck im afraid of women. So yah please dont laugh at me for being this way, because that is why I am the way that i am. So now you know that your not the only one. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Move somewhere where people don't know about your "goonish" past and make a fresh start for yourself.