I came home and found my normally very straight, rugged boyfriend with a new hairstyle (and eyebrows to match) - the one in the picture below. While he's always had great long hair, he's never done anything remotely stylish with it, even more feminine, so this look - especially with his usually very bushy eyebrows reduced - shocked me. I left to gather my thoughts and get help. What do you think I should do? He've never shown gay tendencies before (to me at least), but this is definitely making me wonder otherwise.
It's this same exact style:
http://www.katharine-mcphee.net/gallery/albums/userpics/10001/sexyhairad.jpg
2007-04-27 05:20:09 · 17 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
I would first ask him what type of look he was going for. Then tell him what you honestly think it looks like. I would next ask him if he was a crossdresser. Then go from there in regards to your boyfriend and relationship. If you want to be with such a guy.
2007-04-27 05:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ro 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow.....ummm...though, it's understandable you'd want to be concerned, it's really, and I hate to say it this way, not your business to say what he can do with his hair. On the other hand, I am questioning if he could've gone drag? Hmmm....I am stumped. You said you needed to get help, is that right? Hmmm....Help with what? Did he get a perm, or did he curl it with a curling iron? Did he wax his back, chest, brows, the whole nine yards? Are you sure it was just the hair and not anything else? Soooooo many questions come to mind. At the end of the day, it's really not up to you how he wears his hair, though, it is up to you how you react. I understand your concern, believe me. However, there's not much you can say to diswade him from making this decision that he wishes to make for a hairstyle--especially, if in fact, this is for the purpsose of going drag. Wow. Good luck!
2016-05-20 08:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you and your boyfriend have a good relationship and can communicate, because if you don't - then you will be full of questions. Besides the fact that it 'is' his hair - I'd be tempted to ask him why the drastic change. He should be able to tell you what prompted his desire to do this to his hair. Perhaps his response will satisfy you and ease your discomforted feeling about his sexuality. I think that the 'hair' issue isn't the first indication of your doubt. You need to talk to him.
2007-04-27 05:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is feeling like he wants a change who knows but just because he did his hair like this doesn't mean he is gay.....I am thinking you should ask him if he wants your help in picking out a new style....
2007-04-27 05:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by liddo1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd come right out and ask him if he was gay, or what's going on? Sounds like a good time to get out girl!
2007-04-27 05:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by karenhar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lmaooooo okay i can't stop laughing.
im very sorry you had to found out like this
but i say you take him to a salon or give him sleeping pills and once he's out, you cut his hair and draw back his eye brows.
or simply leave him.
2007-04-27 05:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by tellmebabyx3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i give you all support i have no idea what happened to him. but talk to him about how you feel about it. maybe he had pressure from a stylest it has happened before maybe he dint think it would look like this. or he could be gay but first TALK to him
2007-04-27 06:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...that is a strange haircut. however, if he is fashion-challenged, he may have fallen into the hands of a malicious stylist who convinced him that it would be great. i wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
2007-04-27 05:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to dump him because of a hair style, that's shallow.
2007-04-27 05:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
uhh well first i would slap him because that looks horrible on a guy, no just kidding. i would ask him why he did that. don't get all on his case because it is his hair and he can do what he wants, unless you want to control that. but i wouldnt suggest that.
2007-04-27 05:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋