2007-04-27 04:51:28 · 28 answers · asked by Janay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on you. Some women like to do it. You have a few options. I recommend not getting to close when the volcano erupts if you are not experienced.
This is really a choice that you and your partner should discuss. If he gets angry that you don't then dump him. If he loves you he should respect you.
Be careful and take pride in yourself and your capabilities!
2007-04-27 04:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by graphicsejs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That completely depends on how you feel. If it feels right to you, then go for it. Just be careful. I'd have to agree with Lek about Becker10. I knew a girl who was like that.....I seen her one day with about 15 blisters all over her lips. You could get something and not even know that they had anything. But, in the end, it's all up to how you feel at the time.
2007-04-27 05:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a choice of how comfortable you are with your boyfriend. And how comfortable he is with you. Making out is one thing, taking farther steps is another. I gave oral for the first time after dating my boyfriend for over a year. It was an experiance for both of us but only because I felt and still feel comfortable with him and am in love.
2007-04-27 04:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda up to you. Have you had regular sex? How long do you even consider long? Cuz I'm 22 and i've only done that for 2 people and i dated both of them for over a year.
2007-04-27 04:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lek 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girl's in the same boat. She just started doing it.. sort of. Anyway, it something all guys want and he's not going to just forget about it. He will probably never feel fulfilled if you don't. But don't be afraid to get what you want either. Guys are always up for bribes. Tell him you want him to do the dishes or whatever.
2007-04-27 04:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU want to then do it, if you dont then tell him no. Oral sex can be a very pleasurable intimate exchange between 2 people, however do not do it if you arent ready.
2007-04-27 04:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but only if i was with the guy for like 3-4 months, that way i know he's just not in it for the sex.
2007-04-27 04:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by **Q-T-Pi** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, thats what married people do and after you 2 are married you can both do whatever you like.Sex is for married people.The fact there are unwanted pregnancies, abortion and std's is PROOF of that hon.
2007-04-27 04:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you should be comfortable with performing. Don't do it just because he asked you to. Just say "Don't worry, when the time is right, you'll be the first to know."
2007-04-27 04:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have to pleasure him too because if you dont he will leave! Its not that bad but if your under the age of 15 then dont do it. Thats a big sin and god will send you to hell
2007-04-27 04:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋