what does it mean?

Question

i am a lesbian...i'm interested in this woman....but i don't know if she likes me....today she walked past my office ........other people were in there also .....she looked in and looked directly at me....i smiled and she looked away and continued walking......moments later she walked by past the office going in the way she came....this time i didn't look at her but i can see her out the corner of my eye...she looked directly ay me again but by the time i could look up at her....she turned her head quickly and was already passing my door....what does this mean? does she want to tell me something? someone please answer those two questions for me

Answer 1

does she know that your a lesbian she may feel nervous around you even tho it's the 21 century. or maybe she wants to tell you something but she doesn't want the hole office to know. dating someone from work can be tricky

Answer 2

Dear What does it mean?

If I "were" you I would not look into what is going on with a magnifying glass. Because there is nothing going on. I was never one to assume anything or speculate? That is were people get their feelings hurt by assuming. IF you like this women.... be up front. State your interest..... what is the worst thing that can happen?? Her either telling you that she is not interested OR her telling you that she is.... And that is your goal to make "REAL" contact. Not the unknown of wonders.

Then you may want to look at your sexual preference... you said that you are a lesbian. Do you know if she is a lesbian too? You will only know these answers if you only "ask".

On another note.... the old saying still holds true today. "DO NOT GET YOUR MEAT WHERE YOU MAKE YOUR BREAD" In other words.... don't mix your pleasure were you make your money. (SMILE)

Hoping you make some progress, closure or clear understanding.

Good luck.

Answer 3

It is difficult to say since I didn't see "the look". Chances are she was just running an errand to the other side of the building and just happened by your door. She may be picking up on some signal that you are sending consciously or unconsciously that you find her interesting. If she is interested in you for a relationship, she will make a point to talk to you. Otherwise, I wouldn't do ANYTHING to intiate contact for obvious reasons. You also have to face the fact that she may have "heard" (you know how ppl gossip and how narrow minded ppl can be when it comes to sexual orientation) that you were a lesbian and she thought she'd come by and "see what a lesbian really looks like" LOL

Answer 4

In a work environment it is hard. Befriend her, be all spy like, lol. Find out her interests, see if she is straight, bi, or lesbian. That's really all you can do when you are dealing with someone from work.

Answer 5

I am not a lesbian so I would have no idea. Perhaps she was lost and trying to make up her mind about whether or not to ask directions?

Answer 6

Do you mean that you meant the observe "mean" in its unique meaning or are you too mean to fulfill my mean criteria? Oh, i will initiate moaning about your blending up all those m-words...

Answer 7

Women are confusing like that. That's why I stick to men.

Is she a lesbian too? Maybe you should find out

Answer 8

shes trying to tell u to spend ur precious time on men not women, thats what u should be doing not the other,a word is enough for the wise.

Answer 9

Girl, ask her out or something. You make the move. I hope that you know for sure that she's a lesbian too.

Make your move...ask her out!!

Answer 10

It does mean that she wants to tell you something but it's too soon to tell if she wants to be with you.