Boys: How do you show girls you like them?

Question

I heard guys who like you like "brush past" you and always look you in the eys when you talk etc.
this boy who likes me and i kinda like back, never does anyone those, i think he finds it hard to talk to me sometimes and he doesnt keep eye contact much
HEEEELP

Answer 1

Everyone is different...
But I would say the only way you are going to find out is to just find an opportunity to "brush up on him".No not literally, just find something that he's doing that you and he have in common and ask him a question or just get involved in a conversation that he is into.
If he is really shy, expect him to babble and blunder a lot, in my opinion, thats because he's not used to being approached by a pretty girl, The problem again, my opinion, is that you are waiting for him, why wait? Approach him. Don't be flirty, don't be someone you aren't, he's being shy? He's being himself, you do the same.
So in all this babble, dont wait, you like each other? Start with an invite on neutral ground: movie then go out to eat for the night, or better yet something you LIKE to do thats off the beaten path, then go from there at whatever speed YOU like to do. Then let him show you something, some place he like to do/ hang out. If its too fast for him don't panic just hear what he has to say.
Maybe the environment that you are at makes him uncomfortable after all peer pressure and clicks are all around you at school for example. The more comfortable and honest "openly" you are about yourself in front of him, the more he will with you.

Again, just my opinion, Good Luck!

Answer 2

The answer to your question depends on a couple of different factors: (1) age of the boy; (2) whether the boy is competitive by nature; (3) whether the boy feels the girl is interested in return or he is still trying to assess her level of interest. Generally speaking, the younger the boy the more likely he will be to play games. Also, if he is competitive and tends to view his interactions with girls as a competition, he will also be more likely to play games.

From your description of the boy you fancy, he sounds shy. Shyness can be like kryptonite, which I know because I was a painfully shy boy. Difficulty talking, especially with someone you fancy, and unwillingness to make eye contact are classic symptoms. If you are bolder by nature, why don't you ask him out. I realize that will take a certain amount of bravery and will mean you are risking rejection and embarrassment yourself, but, in the end, you might get what you want. Take a chance.

Answer 3

Aw, he's shy...lol.
Probably doesn't want his thoughts transmitting by eye-eye means. It bypasses the normal methods of communication and goes straight to your subconscious.

Touching is a way of testing reactions, ie stroking the hand. If the person doesn't object or move away then maybe they like you. But it has to be allowed. If it isn't - move on. Also whilst doing it watch and see what the eyes do... I'm personally not a very touchy person because I don't like transmitting my inner desires to people. Also this cannot be done in a work environment IMHO.

Answer 4

It depends on the guy, if he is shy he may act nervous around you that would explain the lack of eye contact. Maybe he is unsure if you like him. Find a subtle way to let him know. If he is not a shy guy than he will find any excuse to touch you hence the brush past. So it depends is this guy shy or not?

Answer 5

Tough one!

Guys will typically do things for a girl they like when they wouldn't usually.

Helping you out, texting with no real point.

But that all slows down once you start dating and from my mates experiances stops all together when you get married!!

Boys are complicated, but not as much as women!!

-Mikey B

Answer 6

there's no such component as a "boy educate" or "lady educate" My cousin and that i watched Avatar each and each of the time and we are women. A educate is for every person who likes it and not in any respect a particular gender

Answer 7

We like to kick footballs at you - coz that shows we really care!! I know its strange but thats how us men deal with it!!
As for your chap who doesnt make eye contact - maybe hes js shy?? Dnt stress it giv him a football & watch him knock ur fronts out!

Answer 8

sometimes when we like a girl we get shy around them does he know that u know he likes u some times im shy its all in how i feel around da girl but usualy im joking around with a girl i like but if she takes my breath away forget i get mad shy

Answer 9

mayb hes shy to talk to u..talk more n find out whats in his mind..and let him knw sumthing abt u..sho tht ur very open-minded carin n undestanding..rest will come automatically..Good luck

Answer 10

maybe he is just shy, but go for it and everything will be ok u try to talk to him first and see what happens nothing ventured nothing gained