i met a woman 6 weeks ago through an online dating service,i like her but i am not gaga over her,we have been intimate and we have a lot of fun when we are together,yesterday she asked me to accompany her to a meeting with her sons teachers to assess his needs for his entering junior high next year,he has a mild case of aspergers syndrome.she asked me to go with her citing she has nobody else to go with and she is scared to go alone.she has many friends and i cant understand why she would ask me.
i welcome your answers.
2007-04-27 04:22:55 · 11 answers · asked by casey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that is too much for her to ask. If she really is scared of going alone, then she can ask a friend. By asking you, she is including you in a long term process..Aspergar's is life long and involves many of these types of meetings. Perhaps by being "intimate" with her she views you as "long term". This may also be a manipulative tactic of hers to ensure you become involved and are long term.
Don't go...
2007-04-27 04:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by blondbrainserenity 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that sounds weird to me. Sounds like she feels your relationship is much more serious than what it is. These ppl are NOT right in the head. Usually is a manic personality trait. My oldest sister is manic. Sounds like something she would do. GET OUT...do not let her weazle you into the "father mode" if there is NO commitment. The child does NOT need false hopes. good luck
2007-04-27 04:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's way WAY too soon.
The reason she is asking you is that she is needy and desperate for a man in her life. No sane woman would ask a man that she has only know for 6 weeks to do that...it's absurd. No only should you find some reason not to go, but you should seriously find a new girlfriend. She is looking for a father for her child and isn't above trapping one if you know what I mean.
2007-04-27 04:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty serious request for 6 weeks. Tell her that you feel like that's too much, since you're not his father-you'd feel out of place at this point, but offer to take her to dinner afterwards and talk about it and relax.
2007-04-27 04:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go. Not yet. Not unless you're serious about committing to her and her son. And it doesn't sound like you are. When it comes to children, I prefer to err on the side of caution.
2007-04-27 04:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She trusts you.
She's scared so obviously, she's going to have someone go with her, which she can trust the most. Does that hurt? All you have to do is go with her. It's nothing hard so don't think too deeply. I don't think she's asking for too much.
It can't hurt, all that's going to do is gain more trust and respect.
2007-04-27 04:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Reaper 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a good thing, she really trusts and cares about you to involve you like that.
2007-04-27 04:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she may not be gaga for you --- she is hoping that there is a future together and is seeing how much you care for her ---- and she trusts you ---- a lot actually
2007-04-27 04:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Man it is a test. she is testing you to see how well you react. She is trying to get cozy with you man. Just go.
2007-04-27 04:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by blaw7162000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She feels more comfortable being around you and would appreciate your moral support. You should be flattered.
2007-04-27 04:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋