There is this person who always ask me to do him a favor. I always help him because at those times, I am able to help him. Then, when he asked me for help and I can't ( Not because I don't want to ) help him, he accuse me of being unhelpful and force me to help him.
When you ask someone a favor, you actually 'beg' them to help you. You don't get to control the situation and decide wether that person should help you. If that person says no, then you are helpless and should just shut up, not talking about how unhelpful or useless friend that person is. Even if that person can help you, but chose not too, well, he/she have the right to do so!
I really wish I can tell him that...
2007-04-27 03:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by photographer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Is this person a friend? If so, they don't sound like one. He's obviously using you and sees you as someone to do his bidding. Either get a backbone and tell him where he can go, or get rid of him fast.
2007-04-27 04:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 10:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you are pretty tight friends. If this person asks again try saying "if I can". This way the option is up to you to say No. I've done this.
If this person is a repeater i.e., asks all the time for favours, you might think about a little distance from him/her. Too close for your comfort.
2007-04-27 03:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had someone I barely know yesterday ask if I could loan him 100 bucks that he would repay before the end of the day. Despite having told him numerous times I didn't have 100 dollars to loan him he kept asking me why I wouldn't loan him the money. "What part of I do not have the money don't you understand?" Never mind the fact that I barely know the guy.
2007-04-27 04:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by terrorfex01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple. Tell this person NO!! It sounds as if he is manipulative. Why do you allow him to bully you? Don't allow him to use you. It's always best to be kind to others, but it's not written anywhere that you have to be a doormat. This person is not really your friend. He only likes you when you can do something for him.
2007-04-27 03:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the f**k is he? believe you me when i say that this person is not your friend, out of your life! people like this are worse than leeches! and dont misunderstand me, i am very giving and generous hence i have been used many times before... but toughen up, dont let this idiot or anybody else take advantage of your very giving nature.
all the best mate
2007-04-27 03:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy this one knows what a pushover you are, he has your buttons down to the size and color.
tell him no alittle more often just to put him in his place. after all who needs who here.
in my opinion this person is intimidating you into doing what he wants without regard as to your needs or wants.
after a few times of this, i would definately choose my favors wisely.
2007-04-27 04:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hate it!! Some people just can't take no for an answer!! Then they make you feel guilty about it!! I hate it too when people volunteer me for things that I don't want to do!!
2007-04-27 03:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you, hon. Your call, that's all.
If what you're saying is true, salespeople and business would not exist.
2007-04-27 03:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaha i knw what u mean...
it happend 2 me a few times lol
2007-04-27 03:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by 2guitars_and_an_Amp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋