2007-04-27 01:57:19 · 5 answers · asked by Jacob N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, like everyone else is saying, get a job! If you're going to make that kind of commitment to another you need to be responsible and mature,which you aren't if you choose to sit around and not work. Not only this but where do the two of you expect to live if there is no income? Maybe your parents don't want to be put in a position of financially taking care of you and your fiance.....I don't blame them!
2007-04-27 02:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lwood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way,yuo want to stay with your fiance and had no job,it she living with her parents? cause if she is them you should be ashame of your self,get a job and get an appartment them go live with her,you r the men u r suppossed to support her no her and her parents u.good luck ,lucky u that she is your fiance cause if she was my daughther forget about it.
2007-04-27 02:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Reinaldo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good job for your fiance, so she will work for the both of you and your parents won't have any reason to worry about.
2007-04-27 02:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by MS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are grown-up enough to be engaged to be married, you are grown-up enough to tell your parents you can make up your own mind.
Stay calm at all times (calm people always have more power than emotional people) and tell them it is no longer up to them what you do with your life. Then finish the discussion.
Every time they bring it up, tell them (politely)the same. Refuse to discuss it further.
If they see you are serious about it and stand strong, they will accept it eventually.
Good luck.
2007-04-27 02:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by renemeis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get
a
job!
2007-04-27 02:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋