to those who sleep around...?

Question

don't you feel that you are cheapening yourself when you sleep around? (serious question). don't you feel "downgraded"..?

oh ya. and no one would respond to my question because if they did, they would admit they sleep around. it would be very shameful. man..how stupid i am.

to acid zebra- nope. even when i was not a christian. i thought it was pretty cheapening to sleep around. now that i am christian, i still think its cheap. :)

Answer 1

I feel cheap if I sleep with someone who doesn't seem to care who I am as a person, but if I have more than one lover and they are both compassionate, good men who consider me and treat me well, than no. I'm married and my husband and I have an open marriage (we are very close, he is my best friend), so I have two lovers (including my husband). If when you say "sleeping around", you mean having more than one partner, than I guess my answer is no, not at all. I feel loved and I am loved.

Edit: I think you are close minded and overly bound by social constricts

Answer 2

No, I don't (feel degraded) and yes, I have had many relationships over the years. Do you think that I did not care for them or there was no deeper connection? Do you think it is just a callous 'lets shove my willy in the next available body'? Because it isn't.

Keep your idiot faux-moralistic ideas and shove them. How brainwashed are you? The sex drive is as old as life itself, and only the nonsense ideas of your church are making you say this.

Did you know that animals who mate for life (often cited by morons such as you) will rodger the jolly out of every fit mate come springtime? I bet you didn't.

Answer 3

It depends entirely on who you're sleeping around with. If it's a friend then no it doesn't make me feel cheap, if it's a random guy then yeah it's kinda degrading.

Answer 4

Why are you so worried about what other people do?

Let me guess, you are one of those people who thinks everyone should wait until they are married? Don't try shoving your "morality" off on everyone else. It doesn't work in the real world.

Answer: No. My only regrets in life involve past religion and political affiliation.

Answer 5

Yeah, a little bit, I almost start to contemplate the whole thing at times.........but then my sex friend gets here and it's FUN & SENSUALITY GALORE!!! Also, not having to buy her a ring or making sure the kitchen is cleaned sure is cool.

Answer 6

Shame on you. if daddy heard those words from one of us youngins we would be goin to the woodshed for a tannin like we never had and uncle Bobby already got that one time cause he was talkin bad. daddy called it trailer trash and I recon daddy knows best and uncle Bobby and cousin Jed play cards at the saloon and gramma calls it gamblin and gramma tells uncle Bobby to stay away from them kind of girls cause gramma wants uncle Bobby to marry Laura Lynn who lives down yonder and she wants all the kin folk at the weddin and I recon gramma is right cause Laura Lynn is a good girl and gramma says its cause she had some good southern upbringin. daddy says I have to save myself for marriage and I recon daddys right cause I dont wanna be like them gilrs at the saloon.

Answer 7

I do not sleep around so I did not feel inclinded to answer but there is always forgiveness for those who do.

Answer 8

Would you feel cheap if hot guys/girls wanted to have sex with you every night? I'd feel blessed!

But if you paid for the sex...that's a different story.

Answer 9

Honest answer is needed by the one asking the question but I think that is personal, they could not accept it.
jtm

Answer 10

Don't you feel that you're wasting your points by trying to demean strangers?