I found a picture in my husbands wallet of his ex girl he never had it befor he said he dont know how it got in his wallet could he still care about her. should i be worried? was he to young for me i am 29 and hes 22.
2007-04-26 17:22:01 · 11 answers · asked by christina b 2 in Consumer Electronics ➔ Other - Electronics
it could be a couple of reasons if it was his first love it may be hard for him to let go if this is the case the picture may still not be a threat as long as he isn't still in contact with her i wouldn't worry. Or it could be cause he is lazy and just never cleaned out his wallet, I know i kept pictures of my first love around for a couple of years before disposing of them even while i was with my next girlfriends but I never made an effort to contact her she is an ex for a reason and he is married to you for a reason.
I guess just ask him if he still has feelings for her and he will probably say no which is the truth. See if he will throw it away for you because you aren't comfortable with him having it.
2007-04-26 17:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by the man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y first husband grew to become into terrible. He grew to become into the two bodily and emotionally. I left him whilst my daughter grew to become into 2. It grew to become into the final factor I ever did. She is now 20 and a sophomore in college and he's and constantly grew to become right into a great father.. basically an exceptionally undesirable husband. i'm guessing you're youthful because of fact of particularly some the flaws you have reported he has performed. i might touch your loved ones in case you may and get the hell out. it incredibly is plenty greater helpful to be a single make certain than stay in an abusive abode. I even have for the reason that remarried (11yrs) to a surprising guy and characteristic 3 different infants. that's great to be in a loving marriage. You owe to your self to locate a guy which will manage you with all the affection and fervour you deserve. good success.
2016-10-30 10:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by helfinstine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you seen any unusual behaviour with him? is he kind of suspicious recently? just calm down and be more careful watching out on his behaviour... if you think he might be seeing her comfront him again but first of all just give him the benefit of the doubt.
About the age i think he is too young... guys at that age are mostly into dating, going out clubbing and to bars to meet chicks... i don´t know the reasons for you 2 to marry or what is your story but i must say that not all of the guys are the same maybe i am wrong and he is too mature to be 22... like i know this guy that is 30 but behaves like a 16 year old so just take a deep breath and analize what is around and stay aware.
2007-04-26 17:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chill out. first, he's not too young for you - that's only a seven year difference and age has nothing to do with love and committed relationships. second, you have to be able to trust eachother or what are you going to base you marriage off of? is it possible you never noticed the picture before? but in answer to your question - yes, it is totally possible he still cares about her. do you care about any of your exes? but just because he still cares about her, does not mean he loves her, at least not in the way he loves you. after all, he is married to her. if you want your marriage to last you need to learn to either trust him, or get out. you can't flip out everytime something happens. why aren't you talking to him about all this (he is your HUSBAND!).
PEOPLE- DON'T GET MARRIED IF YOU AREN'T SURE!
2007-04-26 17:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would worry....a lot of men get married quick to forget about the last one. Hopefully you are not a victim of that. If you want, you can level the playing field by collecting all your past lover's pictures, and have him accidentally find yours. See if he get's jealous. Maybe he'll acquire empathy for you because he'll understand why it hurts.
2015-01-31 07:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it? He married you. But if it makes you feel better, give him one of you. And just what does your age have to do with anything?
2007-04-26 17:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What were you doing in his wallet?
2007-04-26 17:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
rip it up and put it back in his wallet..
Keep your guard up and wear condoms
2007-04-26 17:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by melaniepari2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tear it up give it to him and tell him to trash it. Age makes no difference.
2007-04-26 17:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
2007-04-26 17:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by mailittomenow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋