I am very sorry for your loss...As a Theological issue, I wouldn't presume to tell you what to think, but in addition to the spiritual, I've often thought this: Thought is an electrical impulse, right? So, it seems to me, that thought, like sound, goes on forever. And for what it's worth, (I've lost several people over the last couple of year, My Mom, Dad, and a year ago this June 22nd, my best friend. She was 55 years old.) What I've discovered is: They are not "gone". They are right inside my head where they have always been. It takes a little while,(Mostly bercause of the shock/pain, I think) but then, they were just "back". I'm very pleased with this, I can tell you! And, in all cases, after a while, (depending on each loss,) I quit going to visit them graveside, or where-ever, because I could feel that they weren't there any longer. The loss is not nearly so acute. I KNOW they are where I can feel them; with me; just like always. (My shrink says this is denial, but he also says it's not a bad thing. My shrink is a good guy.)
2007-04-29 10:08:50
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answered by Ja'aj };> 6
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Some entities hang out for a while and some don't. They can observe you very easily. But as far as communication goes its hard for them to do without their human bodies. Try talking to the person in a dark room tell them whatever it was that you had say. Take a digital camera and take some pictures of the surrounding room with the flash on. You may see something if your loved one is there. But if your camera has filters it will prevent you from viewing any plasma(energy level of your spirit body makes like a foggy look). Meditate and concentrate on the persons face, until you receive impressions. This may take some practice. This is how you learn to send and receive information with any person, live or dead. Have an open mind and ask for any signs. Sometimes you will feel a chill or heat or feel the presence of something with you. Trust what you feel. Death is only a transition. The part that sucks is when you incarnate, your memory is blank because your born with a blank mind with only the help of your instincts. So we don't remember that there was most likely some other existence before the human experience. I wish you well and the same for your Butterfly friend who has passed.
2007-04-26 23:37:27
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answered by God!Man aka:Jason b 3
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Hello Special friend, yes you, There are three lives. Our physical life, our sound life and eternal life.
The physical life is the life we are living now.
The sound life of course are the things we say or words we write.
The eternal life is something some believe in , but no one knows anything for sure about it. So there is nothing you can do.
As you know the physical life of the one dear to you is over. There is nothing you can do about that.
The sound life, being the things we say and write, is like throwing a rock in a lake. When you do that you see the water ripples spread out and they go and go till they fade out. The same happens with the sound life.
You can keep your dear ones sound life alive by just repeating to others the things your dear one had told you during their physical life.
One day I was teaching a man to tie a knot to hook a hook on his fishing line. I used the same words in my directions that my uncle Jack had used. He asked me where I learned that knot and I told him my uncle Jack taught me when I was a boy. My uncle Jack has been dead for 20 years, but for that moment he was there on that pier. Or at least his sound life was.
Hope this helps you.
2007-04-29 11:48:36
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answered by asmikeocsit 7
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There is no life after death. Do no buy into this idea. Yes, you will miss that friend, but do not try to communicate with him/her. The bible said the persons conciousness perish. In fact, it also called it sleep. The dead is not in pain nor are they seeying what is going on on earth. All these are satan trickery, and catholic lies. If there is life after death, why are all the priests still desiring to live. They also pray for the sick to stay alive. When the sick is dead they said that the dead is now in heaven. Read the bible for yourself. Those Catholic fathers are all liers. The bible said the dead knows nothing.
Satan will impersonate your friend and let you think it is realy your friend. In so believing, you will be calling God a lier because He said something else. (just like Eve in the garden)
2007-04-26 23:37:40
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answered by Christopher N 1
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Yes there is life after death but unless he is a ghost no you would not be able to connect with him. He most likely took another birth. Unless one thinks of God at the moment of death they will take another birth depending on their consciousness that would depend where and in what species. It is a very complex subject but it is very factual the the soul never dies only the body dies and the soul is eternal. We are all eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, ect. for more info on Reincarnation and the eternal soul go to harekrishnatemple.co Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanat Prabhupada-tells all. I sympathize with your pain. Peace to you.
2007-04-26 23:29:36
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answered by Anonymous
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No, sorry. My condolences for your loss. But instead of saying goodbye, why not celebrate the time you did have? Find a friend who didn't know this person... and tell the friend all about him, tell all the serious stories, funny stories, make him live again in your heart, and you'll never have to say goodbye or lose him.
2007-04-26 23:24:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope dont consult or involve urself in any cults to them.Its a very evil pratice and GOD hates it.
But are u trying to answer back someone to whom u are even more dearer too that he died for u on the cross and trying to connect too u.
JESUS is knocking at the door of ur heart.Kindly open it.
John 3:16 says "For GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoso ever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life".Ask JESUS to come into your heart and forgive ur sins and cleanse ur past with his blood.
With a simple prayer like above u can be saved.
2007-04-27 08:58:40
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answered by Emmanuel 4
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Eccl.9:5 states:"For the living are conscious that they will die but as for the dead they are conscious of nothing as all."
Gen.3:19:..."For dust you are and to dust you will return."
Even Jesus likened death to a sleep in the account of the death of his good friend,Lazarus found at John11:11-14.
The Bible plainly teaches that when we die,we cease to exist.We feel nothing,hear nothing,do nothing....We remain in God's memory till the appointed time when all those asleep in death will be resurrected and given an opportunity to get to know Jehovah God.(Acts.24;15)
So the answer to your question is no.But there is a hope for the future for all of us to see our dead loved ones again...
2007-04-28 12:34:17
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answered by lillie 6
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I am so sorry that you have to go through the pain you are going through in missing that someone close. The one who is no longer in the grave testifies by His resurrection there is life after death. He said to His disciples I go to prepare a place for you, for in My Father's house there are many rooms and if it were not so I would have told you.
The good news is that this place is for the weak and the poor and the broken. A man prayed this way as Jesus told it, "A publican would not so much as look up to heaven but beat his breast and said "Have mercy on me a sinner" Jesus spoke of this man walking away justified (Forgiven) as opposed to the man who boasted of all the good that he did.
Jesus is the mercy of God. Your someone dear cannot go to you but you can go to them, would that you go through the same door of mercy the publican went through. Through Jesus death on the cross mercy is given to those doing nothing, contrary to doing, only believing.
2007-04-26 23:34:31
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answered by Steve R 2
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The whole concept of heaven is family. you and I were spirit children of God and we worship Him as our Father. We will return to him and give an accounting of our lives, how well we did. and will be assigned accordingly All will be saved eventually but not all will receive the same glory (every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus is the Christ) You can be an eternal family but you must follow the rules. Your friend is there waiting. (Contact LDS Missionaries for an explination)
2007-04-26 23:40:25
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answered by scotty_84116 4
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