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I have recently moved to US. So am not an US citizen. I met this girl in one of the local pubs and there is some chemistry going on between us. We kissed and did some petting. We both know that the relationship as short term. Am ready to have sex with her. But am just wondering what are the implications if I get her pregnant. In case she gives birth to my baby, can she legally sue me if we later end this relationship and not get married? I mean, do I need to pay some alimony for raising the child?

2007-04-26 13:51:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Ok, guys, thanks for all your replies. And looks like some people got a bit emotional in answering. Let me clarify things here.

1) I dont want to **** her after 1 or 2 dates. I know her since 6 months. And am not trying to escape from her without getting married. We both are on the same terms and take this as a short term relationship.

2) And no, I am not going out of US soon. I will be here atleast 8 or 10 years more.

3) I dont want to become US citizen by making her pregnant.

4) I know about condom, but again, there is no 100% guarantee that it gives protection all the time.

5) My main worry is that the girl expressed a couple of times that she likes sex without condom. So I have a reason to believe whether she has got any plans to get child support from me later. And yes, I have a business here and have a cumulatively increasing bank balance which makes me feel more like an easy target.

2007-04-27 06:39:30 · update #1

14 answers

You will probably be sued for child support. but that would be unlikely if you move back to your home country especially if before the "baby" is born. Better yet dont go that route. protect yourself your health (and your pocketbook) use protection.

2007-04-26 13:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

whoa you just went from one extreme to the other....If you just met why would you be thinking about getting her pregnant..As for that question yes if you get her pregnant you would be needing to pay her child support for the baby until the child is 18 I think in some states..why dont when you have sex use a condom cause you never know what she has or you may get? you cant trust this issue nowadays its your life on the line with all the STD's and AIDS out there..I am sure you didnt come here to recieve a disease..Did you?
Good Luck~

2007-04-26 14:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 0 0

I believe in international cases like this they do not award child support to the mother. Its quite hard to send the money, get the right amount after currency conversion, and even get a bank to cash an international draft. I would say no. But wear your rubbers mate, if only to protect yourself from the nasties.

2007-04-26 13:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by liebedich85 4 · 2 0

if you are stupid enough to get the lady pregnant then you must pay child support --- the EASY answer is use protection all the time --- and that means a condom --- if she is sensible she will be on the pill as well but still use protection to stop the spread of disease

2007-04-26 13:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1 0

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2016-10-30 09:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by boamah 4 · 0 0

i dont know if she can sue you legally because you are not a citizen of the U.S...best advice i can offer you protect yourself and try your best not to get her pregnant. you havent know her that long, so why would you want to get her pregnant. ask her if shes on the pill or what precautions shes taking to not having kids now before you get in over your head..good luck!

2007-04-26 14:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0 0

ah hahahahaha
ahhh hahahahahahahaha
you are in the U.S. for sex.
if you didn't bring condoms with you, you can buy them here.
ah hahahahaha
hopefully you're not planning on having a baby here in order to become a citizen.

2007-04-26 14:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Here is a thought, don't have sex with her without using protection, then you won't have to worry about such things as supporting your child, should she become pregnant.

2007-04-26 13:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 2 0

use a condom stupid!! or have her take birth control

2007-04-26 13:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by kendall 3 · 1 0

where some protection(condom)

2007-04-26 13:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by gregriverside1 1 · 2 0

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