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My parents hate me because im so depressed and i hate my family members. My mom hate me becauseshe cant see her sister because of me..my dad is never on my side. I feel like a failure to them. They dont care what happens to me. I want to move out of my house and runaway, but i cant ecause im just 15.... or just kill my self. My birthday is coming up and noone even cares.

2007-04-26 13:42:38 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

46 answers

Trust me your parents don't hate you.They are just really upset at you.And if you think no one cares then that's a lie.Just because people may not show it doesn't mean a thing.I know a lot of people that care about other people but are to scared to say anything about it for fear of humiliation.

2007-04-26 13:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 4 1

DON'T KILL YOURSELF.YOU CAN GO TO A GUIDIANCE FOR ADVICE. THEY MIGHT HATE YOU BUT AS LONG THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS THEY LOVE YOU.YOU MIGHT DO SOMETHING REALLY BAD, THEY STILLL LOVE YOU. NO MATTER WHAT.
WHEN THEY GET MAD AT YOU JUST THINK YOU IN YOUR HAPPY PLACE IF YOU HAVE ONE. THAT MIGHT HELP!!!!!!!

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2016-04-22 18:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Killing yourself is not the answer, my friend. Millions of people come from families with problems, as well as myself. Maybe you need to ask yourself WHY you are depressed and go from there, and then ask yourself what would make you happy. It's very important to surround yourself around positive people, you're too young to be depressed and im sorry to hear that. Try finding hobbies, and good friends who can be there for you. You only get one life, why not make it a good thing and change it for yourself?

2007-04-26 13:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by alyssa 2 · 3 0

That's a really big situation OK first YOU SHOULD LOVE YOUR SELF don't do any stupid things to your self because it would be Fullish and you will not get anything from that.
To get out from depression you should interact more with friends or best talk with psychologist that will really help.
You should talk to your parents i think parents can not hate their children's but if they really make you life miserable you should tell about that to you school principle they will help you.

I WISH EVERYTHING WAS GOOD FOR AND ENDED ALL BAD DAYS GOOD,
BUT REMEMBER IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO CARE GOOD ABOUT YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT THEM GOOD TOO.
GOD BLESS YOU.

2007-04-26 14:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by mila KZ 2 · 0 0

Ur parents r probly just frustrated that they cant do anything to help u, thats y they get angry. y r u depressed, remember that u only get one chance at this life, so make it worth it. whats the point in going around making everyone else's life hell because u hate urself? think about how ur mood affects everyone else! talk to ur parents about y u r depressed if u dont, u will never feel anybetter!

2007-04-26 13:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl_kir 3 · 0 0

Maybe your parents "hate you" because your such a negative person! Why don't you try being more positive? Or do you want them to hate you for the attention?!
Is it better for you to get negative attention or positive attention from your parents? Why?
These are questions you need to ask yourself!
Then if you figure out your answers sit down and have a talk with your parents and tell them how you feel. Remember not to argue, that doesn't solve a thing... Raising your voice will not help anything.
Give it a shot from someone who knows! You'll thank me in about 7 years!

2007-04-26 13:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by moon_fariey 3 · 0 3

hey you're only 15, it's hormones and adolescence is a hard time for you as well as your family. If you're having any other problems at home, such as physical abuse and so on, then you should tell someone at school, or call child services. I'm sure that your parents don't hate you, they probably don't understand you and that is a common barrier between parents and their children while they are growing up. You should sit down and talk to them and tell them what's on your mind. Don't take any drastic action as childhood doesn't last forever' you'll be 16 soon and you can learn to put your differences aside then - maybe even leave home. If you are suffering from depression, it may be your work load at school, with GCSE's looming, it can't be easy. Talk to friends, your teacher, or maybe a school councillor. Don't suffer! Good Luck.x

2007-04-26 13:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 5 · 0 0

here's what you can do. go online and look up a counselor or social worker...there are lots of numbers you can call and they can give you advice and even talk to your parents. if they hate you b/c you are depressed, then they obviously have issues they need to deal with.
the important thing is that you get help. i don't care how you get there, take a taxi or something, go to the emergency room and ask for a psychological evaluation. they will talk with you to find out what is wrong, and they will make sure your family doesn't interfere with you recovery. tell them your parents are not supportive and they will talk to them. if you really have a problem, and it is determined by a doctor or social worker, they will have to except the fact that this is serious.

2007-04-26 13:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by flyingprimate 2 · 0 0

I honestly do not think they hate you.. Perhaps you should ask them if they would consider family counseling with you. It sounds like there is a lot of stress buildup. Do not try to end your life just to punish those that are up setting you, that is not a solution trust Me.

2007-04-26 13:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry M 4 · 0 0

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