Assuming they all know about the other lovers and they are ok with it.
2007-04-26 13:40:24 · 23 answers · asked by proficient 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Assuming they all know about the other lovers and they are ok with it.
And I apologize about not mentioning protection or testing, was giving that for granted.
2007-04-26 14:11:17 · update #1
It's okay, sure.
It's also difficult. Good luck with that.
2007-04-26 13:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
It has always been ok to have multiple sexual partners, as long as you know the risks you are taking with that other person... there are many different types of diseases that can be transferred even while using a condom, many people say use a condom and it does help protect you from some diseases but the truth of the matter is that condoms are not 100% safe and disease safe.
You can catch an infection like herpes even while wearing a condom because outbreaks spread and all you need is a little bit of contact with the infected area just to get that disease. many people also think that having oral sex will not get you a disease but that is false info... you can catch oral Gonorrhea from oral sex and it is something hard to get rid of and very life threatening.
If you are kind of like a polygamist and decide to enter a relationship with more then one person just please be aware of the possibilities of what can happen, please make sure you go to the doctors and get checked every so often, most STD's are treatable if caught and can be cured in the early stages.
Good luck with you love life.And please use protection.
2007-04-26 13:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes. I've had multiple sex partners since I was 13. Hey maybe you could even have an orgy. I'd say it's ok as long as you use condoms along with other forms of birth control and all the people involved were tested at least every 6 months for std's and such.
2007-04-26 18:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Milania 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you are positive that you are in a monogamous relationship do not fail to use some sort of protection. Back in the day the side effects were some disease, now there are things out there that can kill you. So long as everyone is cool with it and is using protection it doesn't bother me
2007-04-26 14:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why does it have to be alright in 2007?
was it ever alright in any other year?
yes or no?
isn't it up to you and your friends?
I need to remind you that no matter how okay it is, some people will be offended it you blatently bring it out into the open, I am sure at least one of your friends does not like to openly admit their quirky sex romps.
i think if you all agree then so be it, but keep it behind closed doors.
2007-04-27 05:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really a personal question you have to confront and resolve within yourself. I think its good that you are up front with your partners, they defiantly need to know. Also if you do have multiple partners be sure to get tested regularly. If you are willing to take the risk you must also be responsible enough to understand the consequences of your actions. If you are not ready to handle instances such as an unexpected pregnancy, an std or the emotional commitments, i suggest you reconsider your position. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!
2007-04-26 13:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky45 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
unless you are 2 yrs old or have never heard the words jesus,god, or hell then you know that its wrong!why would you want to subject yourself to that anyway?a man would say the girl is a slop bucket if she slept with more than 1 guy and that puts you in the same catagory.self satifaction isnt what life is all about! the most imporant thing is self respect liking yourself how could you after multipal partners?Iam assuming you mean in a 24 hrs sex romp right?
2007-04-26 14:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by alice a 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I suppose if everyone knows and doesnt mind it would be fine. Like a polyamorous relationship. Thats fine. But if everyone isnt open to it, its not cool.
2007-04-26 14:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by My two cents 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends if you like itching and burning in your genital area or kids by multiple mothers? Not only that, but you'll never be satisfied with multiple partners, you need to find that one special one and marry her and then you will have the best sexual relationship you could ever imagine
2007-04-26 13:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tlee 2 · 3⤊ 5⤋
not only is it ok, its damn near expected...
With divorce rates over 50%, and trends towards living unions rather than marriage, I can't imagine a scenario in this day and age where someone would only have one sex partner.
Seems to me that its almost inevitable over the course of a lifetime to have more than one sex partner.
2007-04-26 13:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by The Big Lebowski 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I totally agree with Tlee...
2007-04-26 14:11:01 · answer #11 · answered by Sixnine23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋