I'm a middle school girl and of course some of u might b saying that's to young 2 deal with boys but i just don't want to hear that i want to hear real advice. .... there's this boy at my school and we both like each other and he holds my hand, and gives me hugs and kisses me on the cheek and will make sure i'm warm when i'm walking in the rain... but today he told me that he likes another girl and i like him and don't want to give up on him what do i do?
2007-04-26 13:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by cutemouth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry,
if he had done this much to you,
it must means that he likes you very much.
The guy might just joking with you or testing you if you care about him or not.
So don't worry, all you need to do is be closer to him and care for him too.
And also try to give him hints that you like him.
2007-04-26 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by littlehappy_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart, I know most girls start being interested boys in middle school, so that is normal. I remember being that age and having a crush. I remember the feelings were so strong that it almost hurt to not be around that person. He sounds like an alright guy from the little that you have stated, however, you should respect the fact that he told you that he likes someone else. What ever you do, do not disrespect yourself by acting like you need him, because you don't! I'm sure that if he leaves you for this girl, and you act like it's no big deal, he will be back, if you still want him. One thing guys hate is to not feel wanted or needed. Just remember that you are so young and you will go through this so many times before you finally find the one for you. It always sucks, but just make sure you learn something from each situation. take care of yourself first sweetheart!
2007-04-26 20:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by DustyJo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. I'm in 7th grade so I'm in middle skool too. Trust me my bf of 7 months dumped me Monday so I no what u mean about dealing with boys. Anyway, no guy should like another girl if hes doing all that stuff for u. do u ever do anything back? This is confusing. Ok so if I were u, I'd just leave him alone all day tomorrow and let him talk to u and u ignore him. U'll get the point. Tell him u really like him and if he likes the other girl, just tell him to pickwho he's happiest with. u or the other girl. HOPE THIS HELPS!
2007-04-26 20:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In middle school it is completely normal to have many different bf or gf because kids your age don't have long term relationships with members of the opposite sex. Let him go so that you don't get a rep as a stalker. Most kids your age stay friends and move on to the next. Tell him it's OK, you like other people too. He will think you are great and will talk nicely about you so let him go. Move on and pick someone else. There are tons of guys out there. Enjoy.
2007-05-04 19:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by TERI Sexton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do some spywork and find out about this other girl. Get some dirt on her and tell him. (not the best solution)
You could be really nice to him and just act natural. You've probably heard this a billion times but, if he doesn't like you for who you are then he's not worth it.
You could try to make him jealous by being with another guy and trying to make him notice you aren't hanging out with him as much as you used to.
Remember! DON'T BE PUSHY! No guy wants to be pushed into anything!
Warning: He could just be saying this to make you take even more notice in him then usual. It could be a lie.
Good luck!
2007-04-26 20:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by devon d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH! Middle school boys are so wierd around girls! You should know, that middle school boys tend to do that! They always go to the pretty-face of the school.
My advice: Go to a guidence teacher (don't worry) and talk to her. Ask some of your friends. Do some things that might impress him. One thing i know for sure is that when boys give up on girls like that, they feel REALLY bad!
2007-04-26 20:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by osufitchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, its better that he told you. You wouldn't want him "cheating" on you. You like him, yes. No guy is worth hanging around for. Try showing him what he is missing. Act like it doesn't bother you. Eventaully he will either come back or you will find someone else. Someone that wants you for you.
2007-04-26 20:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tami L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im in the same situation ecept its only at home well if its a girl u no then ask her if he likes him and if she doesnt then tell that guy that shedoesnt like him and just forget about it and if she then ask that guy if he likesw u better then her and if ur shy like me then give it some time or just give up
2007-04-26 20:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by jazminew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. There really isn't anything you can do. He likes someone else. I know it hurts, but eventually that will go away. Besides there are plenty other boys. Do you really want to keep going after one that doesn't like you back?
2007-04-26 20:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by katmusic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Much better to be his friend than nothing at all. You must be a really nice girl for him to get that close to you.
2007-04-26 20:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋