Well I'm 17 and this guy that I have been crushing on since forever kissed me. I knew he had a girlfriend but I did it anyways. We hung out with a group of people the next day and he put his arms around me. He is still dating his girlfriend and he said that the next time she makes him angry he's gonna dump her. He wants to hang out with me this weekend but I'm not sure if I should or not. He has already said that he actually does care about me.
2007-04-26 13:09:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm 17 and this guy that I have been crushing on since forever kissed me. I knew he had a girlfriend but I did it anyways. We hung out with a group of people the next day and he put his arms around me. He is still dating his girlfriend and he said that the next time she makes him angry he's gonna dump her. He wants to hang out with me this weekend but I'm not sure if I should or not. He has already said that he actually does care about me. And I think the reason he hasn't already dumped her is because Prom is coming up and he would probably be dateless. He and I have been Best Friends since 8th grade and i'm in 11th
2007-04-26 13:21:39 · update #1
If he is cheating on her with you, he'll cheat on you with someone else. Do what you want though, because if you like him you'll probably end up dating him. Be forewarned it won't turn out well.
2007-04-26 13:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. Sounds like a real prize. So what will happen when he's going out with you? He'll cheat on you and dump you the minute you give him grief? Way to go. Try to find another. For your own good.
2007-04-26 20:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by fanthemdl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing it to his current girlfriend, what is to make you think that he won't do the same thing to you. Kissing some one elses boyfriend isn't the best thing to do either. Okay and if he really cared about you and didn't want to be with his girlfriend anymore, then he wouldn't say "If she makes him mad again." Okay does that mean if you make him mad then he is gonna do the same to you? You really have to think about these things. Set higher standards for yourself. Don't disrespect your self because you think the boy is cute.
2007-04-26 20:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chasity B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, stay away, if he wants to hang out after they break up, cool, but now your involved in wrecking a relationship, and you wouldn't like it very much if it were you on the other end. Set some limits if you do hang out, don't let it happen again
2007-04-26 20:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a close look at how he treats his present girlfriend. That's how he'll be treating you if you guys become a couple.
P.S. Have more respect for yourself. He has all but told you "hey, you're Plan B after Plan A makes me angry." Don't you deserve to be someone's Plan A?
2007-04-26 20:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds to me like he's a little player and if you want to get into that kind of stuff you can. Just remember that he kissed another girl while he is going out with his girlfriend so why wouldnt he do it to you?
2007-04-26 20:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by edwig23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he REALLY cares for YOU, he shouldn't still be dating this other chick. If he thinks that he can date the both of you at the same time, i think you should talk to him about the situation, or kick him straight to the curb. You deserve better then the alternative gf. <3
2007-04-26 20:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Your Musical Muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember........"What goes around - comes around". If it is you that he wants then he needs to officially break it off with his girlfriend and you need to back off. Who's to say that he's not toying with you? You wouldn't want any other girl to mess with your boyfriend so don't do it to anyone else. Like I said, if he really likes you, he'll do the right thing and break it off with his girlfriend, otherwise don't even waste your time playing his game.
2007-04-26 20:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg reading ur stori seriously makes me wanna cry. ok so i was in the exact situation and this 17 year old had a gurl and im onli 15. so we both liked eachother and then this a$$ hole started talkin to another gurl forgetting about me. ppl say if i did went out wit him he would do thee same thing he did to his gurl wit mee :(
2007-04-26 20:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the friendship status... NOT SAYING THAT CHEATING IS GOOD!! But your 17 and people make mistakes... I'm that age too and it happens... Live and learn right?
2007-04-26 20:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by frogg_junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋