he and i have real good relation...but the problm is i hav to call him..the time we see each other , evrythin is okay...but after that the days we dont see each other, he doesnt bother to call..i dont understand why?...he attends my call, and talks as normally but he never calls.....whyy????????????/
2007-04-26 12:47:03 · 19 answers · asked by riya s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he doesn't WANT to.
2007-04-26 12:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately this seems to be a problem i have as well. What type of person is he? Does he want a steady relationship with you or is he playing the field. To me, if he doesn't call, he is busy doing other things and if he isn't busy doing other things, then that's even worst. It means that you are not worth the two minutes that it would take to call real quick and say "Hey, I'm still alive, don't worry". You know. If you have already told him that you would like him to call you and he says, "Oh, I will" and yet he still doesn't call, I would say that he is up to no good. Sorry.
2007-04-26 12:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you shouldn't call him for a while. Let him take the initiative for once. He'll call you eventually and probably will ask why you don't call... then you tell him!!
I went through the same thing with my boyfriend at first. But i also relised i would call him all the time not giving him a chance to even think about calling me. I relaxed and he calls and we're happy.
2007-04-26 12:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by binemaeuschen22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone of these people are right...I definitely know that if he was feeling you like you are him, he would be calling you often. Talk to him and find out what the deal is. The bottom line is guys don't call when they aren't that interested. Good Luck
2007-04-26 12:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause guys are lazy, and tend to be less in touch with their emotional side. I mean cmon thats your job to be all emotional and caring. Its ours to fend off wild dogs and gather food for the family (primitivly speaking :P).
Also you need to give him time to miss you first. If your calling 2 times a day he hasnt got enough time to miss you and call you (that or he is too buisy with that woman in the background ;P).
2007-04-26 12:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have your phone? Just kidding, this guy must be very smart and analitical, but even those nice qualities he might be visual and he doesn't make contact through out his ears. Talk to him about the subject, be sure he'll understand and react.
Best regards.
2007-04-26 12:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Papi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probab;y just considers you as nothing more then a friend and isn't interested in being anymore then that so stop calling him and find someone that shares the same interest in you
2007-04-26 12:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is stupid, scad stiff and needs you to make the first move, does he have your phone number. Or he is not sure he is interested enough yet. IT"S A GUY THING>
2007-04-26 12:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D@mn! That sounds like the same thing that happens to me at times. I guarantee they don't what they're doing wrong.
2007-04-26 12:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by iluvchandler_bing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they see you doing all the work so they dont bother attempting to make an effort. if you were not to call, i am pretty sure he would wonder why you have not called.
2007-04-26 12:50:31 · answer #11 · answered by Lori 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋