if you think you blew it with a girl , how do you regain her heart? or anything?

Question

i feel like i blew it with the girl ive been talking about and she said it was the apologizing so much is what caused it and so how do i regain everything i had?

Answer 1

Sometimes that's a really tough thing to do once you blow it once. The best thing you can do after that, is be sincere to them. Let them know you acknowledge that you, and you alone were at fault, and made a mistake. Let them know you want to fix things between you two, and that you hope maybe they will forgive you, so that you can be a better person to her. When letting her know this, ensure that you aren't just saying it to say it, but you really care for her and want to. Let her know that you will stop apologizing so much, and instead of doing that, just fix things without having to be asked, or apologize. If you do this and follow through, she will notice that your saying "sorry" that much less, and taking action that much more. This should show that you truly want to change things, and that you mean it. In other words, the best case you can bring up is action speaks louder than words, I suppose. Say sorry when you do something *really* stupid, and on occasion, but when it's something small you don't need to apologize. Let her know when you do say sorry, your just letting her know your trying to let her know that you care for her when you mess up with her. This should let her know that you care enough to try and fix things between you two, instead of let them dwindle. I hope this was helpful, and feel free to contact me if you have any questions. Best of luck to you on the situation.