odd toddler behavior?

Question

I've been having a bit of a wierd problem lately. My 2 year old boy has been not playing very nice on the playground lately, but not with the boys. Whenever he sees a little girl, he runs up and pulls their pants down, and tackles them to the ground. You have no idea how hard this is to cope with! I can't take him to the playground anymore, because all the other parents start shouting that he's a pervert and that I raised him wrong. I'm starting to worry his Uncle Ronny, who often babysits them (and is a star of "adult movies", though he keeps that very private) could be a negative influence. What should I do???

Answer 1

I think you should trust your instincts. Something is pretty clearly wrong here. Talk to your son, and if all else fails, seek counseling for him. You need to uncover the problem.

Answer 2

get a new babysitter,Uncle Ronny teaching 2 year old bad manners,it may be fun for Uncle Ronny to depants his nephew at home but it is putting bad thoughts in your sons head,talk to your 2 year old and explain that it is not nice to pull girls pants down on play ground and if he doesn't stop they you won't take him any more,also have a very serious talk with Uncle Ronny about the things he is doing while babysitting

Answer 3

Yes this is odd toddler behaviour have you heard of the saying 'Monkey see monkey do'? A child that age is soaking up so much infomation without you even realizing it. He has seen this behaviour and you and Ronny need to correct this! before he starts to get more behavioural problems. It's time you sat down lay down the rules and explain the boundaries to uncle Ronny. A child is a gift don't ruin his life stand up and protect your child.

Answer 4

This might not be easy but your going to have to get down to your son level and explain to him we don't pull girls pants down and tackle them. And he shouldn't be hanging out with Uncle Ronny not a good influence for your son.

Answer 5

That child is seeing more with uncle Ronnie than you think. Maybe he's seeing you and uncle Ronnie, anyway all shut eyes ain't sleep. Have respect for your child and get him away from perverted people, something is not right with this situation.

Answer 6

I'd be having a talk with uncle Ronny, Children copy what the see. I'd guess you son has been seeing some pretty weird things

Answer 7

Explain to your son that the reason he can't go to the playground any more is because he did this. When he protests that he won't do it again, say that maybe one week from now he might be grown up enough to trust. Stick to your position firmly. He must suffer consequences such as being barred from the playground. He must understand that breaking the rules will bring himself negative results. He will soon modify his own behavior.

Answer 8

Uncle Ronny indeed may be a negative influence on him.

Answer 9

Your baby is getting this behavior from somewhere. He has seen it somewhere. TV or in person. I have an 11month old boy and he mimics EVERYTHING he sees. I would keep him away from the uncle for a while and see if he changes. Because of abuse in my family I KNOW that uncles, or family period, are not always that safest people to have our littleones around.

Answer 10

Are you serious? Uncle Ronny? Ron Jeremy? Get a grip and get a life.

Answer 11

When little boys are exposed to pornography, it's only natural for them to imitate the behaviors. Your brother has shown negligence on the part of your son. Showing pornograhy to a child is definitely illegal. The same thing happened to a boy I know and he made sexual advances on girls as well. I wouldn't let him babysit anymore.