i'm really stuck they both say they love me and that they want a future with me, marriage, kids, the whole package...i love them both and could realistically see myself being happy in both positiions...
love #1 we dated for 4 yrs, lived together for 2, i wanted to get married he didnt at the time, i moved out we broke up... now a year later he wants to work it out and get settled down.
love #2 dated speriatically in my life nothing ever serious, never broke my heart. then we found each other again and it became very serious, currently dating 3 months now...and its been so unbelievable.
i need to know should i give my old flame a second chance on a future together? i always wanted it and now here it is, but the timing is so unfortunate as i really love being with love #2...
2007-04-26 12:27:49 · 19 answers · asked by marie143 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I think that if you really have something you love right now, keep it. As for your previous relationship, you and that guy broke up and he might break up with you again, regardless of how much he says he loves you and wants to have a serious commitment with you...if he did it once, he could do it again, unless the person who broke off the relationship was you. If that is the case, then I would look back and think about why I dumped him in the first place. In the end, it is your choice...whichever makes you happy, follow your heart. In my opinion, if I were you I would keep what I have right now, since that is the relationship I am very content with. Good luck!
2007-04-26 12:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have the same exp. but based on my experience is i like a girl who has a bf, then when the time came they broke up and at the same time i look up my attention to a new girl. Then i chose the new one. For you I guess it's better to go with the number 2 guy. Since you should move on in life, and forget whatever happened in the past. You should enjoy the company with your bf now.
You're lucky enough that some guys takes you seriously. :) goodluk!
2007-04-26 19:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by donnuts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my personal opinion... go with #2. It sounds to me like #1 just now realizes what he lost and wants you back... he sounds a lot like one of my ex-boyfriends. If you love #2 and he is deserving of that love (never broke your heart, etc.) you should continue to love him and cut off everything with #1.
Timing is everything, and #1 had the chance to be with you, but the timing wasn't right for him. #2 shouldn't have to suffer because #1 feels that now the timing is right.
Just listen to your heart.
2007-04-26 19:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by KaLei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with #2
#1 could leave any moment
and dont listen to anyone who says to go with the person with the money u could be the richest percon but if are not in love then u have nothing
2007-04-26 19:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try them both... at the same time... in the same bed. Nothing like hot sex to get the blood pumping. Then you can just go with the one that was the best in bed :P
2007-04-26 19:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 already broke your heart, time to kick him to the curb. Who's to say he won't break your heart again.
#2, I say stay with this one, he has been great, and have never made you doubt him before. I'm sure he hasn't broke your heart already.
2007-04-26 19:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by ASK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can live with number one and want everything with him # 2 sounds a little more sketchy is he really in it for the long haul?
2007-04-26 19:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Egg Bagel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like #2 is the best choice.
2007-04-26 19:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say #2. dont let ur old flame break ur heart (again). and if u love love #2 then the obvious choice is #2. listen to ur heart...
2007-04-26 19:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not goin back to love #1 because oflove # 2 then u must really love love #2. stick with him.
2007-04-26 19:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by dred_loxx_4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋