This guy likes me. He tells his friends I'm hot and he gets mad whenever other guys ask me out. (He even scared off this really hot guy that liked me) I tried dating him for a few days, but it was worthless and miserable. Plus, he's shorter than me, and that's a turn-off. I kinda like the attention, but not really when it's coming from him. What do I do about him?? Do I just let him continue what he's doing?
2007-04-26 12:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by gorgeous♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay first of all I found it a little creepy for this dude to be a little paranoid about who you are dating. Just imagine if you date him how he will be in the future, he is jealous about who you talk to or think is HOT. It sounds to me like he is kinda weired. But hey I don't know him so if you feel uncomfortable around him than maybe you should just tell him you dont like him and to PLEASE leave you alone>LOL. I would definitely recommend gurl. com if you were ever there it is a really good website its not dangerous or anything, it talks about abuse, JEALOUSY AND BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS.
I have a question for you to answer. Do you like it when he calls you hot, shouldnt he see you because you are nice or pretty but SAYING A GIRL is hot is just disgusting, and it is kind of degrating your appearance as a women for him to talk that way about you. If I were you I would stick with the HOT GUY LOL>
WIsh you the best of luck
2007-04-26 12:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by bubblebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't let him continue what he's doing he's scaring all the men away and ruining your chance to meet Mr. Right. Just tell him to stop scaring guys away, that you're not interested in him.
By the way I don't blame you...I want a man I could look up to for protection, not someone shorter than me..big time turn off.
2007-04-26 19:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be true to yourself. You can't keep stringing this guy along. It is time for you to do the responsible, adult thing and tell him the truth. If you keep leading him on and his emotions for you continue to grow, by the time you do finally tell him the truth you may have transformed him into a stalker. If he is scaring off guys now, there is no telling what he might do if he really falls for you. The life you save could very well be your own. Peace and God bless.
2007-04-26 19:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take control of your life. If this jerk is still trying to catch you, give him a yes or no and stick to it. Don't ride the fence and have him "scare off this really hot guy" any more.
2007-04-26 19:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop. if u cant date any1 else, and didnt like going out with him, then its just ruining ur love life, and no amount of attention is worth that. tell him to stop. it sounds like hes been doing this 4 waaaay 2 long.
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2007-04-26 19:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing,
let him know that you want absolutely nothing else to do with him but friends..
also make sure he knows that you want to make your own life with another guy and that that guy is not him (of course you have to say it in a nice way which you won't hurt his feelings that much)
2007-04-26 19:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by ALAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put a stop to this - go tell him you're not interested, and to leave you alone.
2007-04-26 19:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Big Super 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Tell him you're not interested.
2007-04-26 19:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dillon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋